Do you prefer the intimate connection of a Girl Friend Experience, or are you more interested in exploring the darker sides of pleasure in a dirty BDSM session? This week, I have curated a selection of books to match your favourite extras. So, you can keep the fun going at home until you can visit us again.

The Girl Friend Experience AKA GFE

This recommendation is for those who love a night of cuddling and cozy affection. Building a more intimate connection than just good old-fashioned sex can provide. Elena Armas’ The Spanish Love Deception is the perfect romcom. You’ll follow main character, Catalina Martín, as she drags her infuriating coworker, Aaron Blackford, to a wedding in Spain to fool her family. It’s funny, flirty with the right hint of spice, just like the perfect GFE. 

The Naughty Girlfriend Experience AKA NGFE

Next up is the Naughty Girlfriend Experience, where the intimate connection of a GFE is combined with the naughtier side of pleasure. This could include spanking, dirty talk, rougher sex and all the other things you wish your girlfriend would do. To fulfil your naughty desires, I’d recommend Gifting Me To His Best Friend by Katee Roberts. Married couple Grayson and Emma decide to finally face the sexual tension between Emma and Grayson’s best friend Derek by gifting her to him for Christmas. But what will happen when Grayson starts to feel left out? This short novella is hot from start to finish; you’ll wish your partner was as naughty as this trio. 

The Porn Star Experience AKA PSE

Does the loud, hot and messy pleasure of a PSE leave you feeling sated? Then I think you should read (or even better, listen to) Caught Up by Navessa Allen. Nico “Junior” Trocci has a dark obsession with Lauren Marchetti, even if he knows she’s off limits. But paying for scantily clad or even fully pornographic videos online isn’t enough anymore; he’s ready to go after what he wants. Can Lauren fight the white-hot desire building between them? This book is red hot, and if you love voyeurism and exhibitionism, then you’ll love this. 

The BDSM Experience

For those of you with a love for all things kinky, I recommend Katee Robert’s Dark Olympus series, starting with Neon Gods. It is a dark romance series full of modern interpretations of Greek gods and heroes. Neon Gods focuses on Persephone and Hades and explores exhibitionism and BDSM. It’s a great combination of riveting story and raunchy sex scenes.


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Dating in the 21st century can be stressful and exhausting. There are so many dating apps available, and each one is slightly different. So I’m here to explain how four of the apps work (and don’t work).


Tinder

You’ve probably heard of Tinder; it’s been around since 2012 and introduced us all to the concept of swiping right. On this app, you build your profile and then start swiping through your prospects, right for yes and left for no. If both people swipe right on each other’s profile, a match is made, and you can start chatting. Most profiles on Tinder are slim on the details and tend to showcase a person’s best physical assets. So, I’ve found Tinder to be better suited for casual hookups than long-term connections.

Bumble

Bumble launched in 2014 with a similar concept to Tinder. You still swipe right for yes and left for no, but when you match with someone, the woman has to message first. Non-binary folk can opt to be the one messaging first or not & for same-sex matches, either person can reach out. If you don’t reach out within 24 hours, the match is lost. Bumble is definitely more focused towards building connections versus hook-ups, but the 24-hour timer can be a buzz-kill for someone forgetful and busy (like me).

Hinge

The app ‘designed to be deleted,’ Hinge was made for finding long-term connections. Instead of only viewing matches when you both like each other, you get to see any person who likes your profile straight away. However, you can only have 8 people waiting for you to reply at a time. So, you need to keep the conversation going or drop people if you aren’t vibing. I find Hinge to be my personal favourite of all the apps; it definitely feels less like doom-scrolling for matches when you can see that someone has liked you. 

Feeld

Feeld, formerly known as 3nder, is perfect for people into ethical non-monogamy, polyamory and kink. It has a designated section for listing your kinks and relationship preferences, making it easier to match with like-minded people. This app is great for finding just the right hook-up or person to explore your kinks with.


Now that you know a bit more about the apps, you can jump right in and start dating. But don’t worry if you’re still feeling overwhelmed, the stunning escorts at Harlots are always here to put you at ease and help explore your desires.

Have you been thinking about buying a new vibrator for yourself or your partner? Well, do I have the recommendation for you!

Womanizer is one of the top sex toy brands, and their Womanizer Duo 2 is proof of it. The Duo 2 combines a clitoral stimulator with a powerful G-spot vibrator, so you can hit both pleasure centres at the same time. There are 14 intensity levels and 10 different vibration patterns to choose from. As well as two different stimulation heads to fit different-shaped vaginas. Finding the right rhythm for your pleasure has never been easier. 

The Duo 2 is easy to clean and quick to charge. Although the magnetic charger can be a bit finicky. I would recommend you double-check that the charging light is flashing, the toy is secure, and it won’t be easily bumped to ensure it is fully charged when you want to play. There is nothing worse than being ready for a round of pleasure only to find out your favourite toy is out of battery.

One of the best features of the Duo 2 is its Afterglow function. Once you’ve brought yourself to a mind-numbing orgasm, you can short-press the power button to bring the intensity level down to the lowest setting. This means you can drag your orgasm out for longer without overstimulating your clitoris.

Another bonus of buying a Womanizer product is their 5-year warranty. If your vibrator breaks, simply submit a warranty request with the retailer you purchased it from and you will be well on your way to receiving a replacement.

If this piqued your interest, you can buy a Womanizer Duo 2 from Amazon or Lovehoney.

Happy Shopping!