Month: August 2025

When you think of a dungeon master, you probably think of a strong man or woman clad in leather ordering you to your knees. But for me, dungeon masters are very different. I think of one of my friends sitting at the head of a large table, weaving a fantastical world for me to explore in a game of Dungeons & Dragons. So, let’s have a look at the similarities between BDSM and D&D.

Roleplay

Whether you’re playing Dungeons & Dragons with your friends or playing out your hottest fantasies with your mistress, you are probably engaging in some roleplaying. Roleplay can be intimidating if you’ve never done it before, but my top tips are ‘fake it till you make it’ and ‘keep it simple’. A good mistress or master (like a good D&D group) won’t judge you if your acting is a bit stiff or not fully realistic. The most important thing is that you (and your partner or players) are enjoying yourself.

Leather

Not all mistresses and masters wear leather, but it’s a classic look for a reason. Often, they won’t wear a full leather outfit but will accessorise with leather collars or cuffs or even toys. D&D groups are much the same. At a regular gaming session, you might not wear a full leather ranger’s outfit, but accessories are definitely encouraged. And if you and your friends decide to go to a medieval festival or a Renaissance fair, then a full leather outfit would fit right in. 

Dice

In Dungeons & Dragons, you use dice to decide almost everything. Whether you can see a hidden treasure or how much damage you do to a foe is all decided by the roll of a die. There’s even a huge market for custom dice to match you or your character’s aesthetic. Meanwhile, in the bedroom, you can use sex dice to decide your next move. There are a few different kinds, some with just fun positions to try or others that work in pairs, one for the action and the other for the body part. These dice can be more funny than erotic at times, but are a great way to add some humour to the bedroom. You can buy some at online retailers like Lovehoney.

Dungeon master or pleasure mistress, both are guaranteed to lead to an evening of fun and adventure. You can learn more about D&D here and check out the BDSM escorts available here. 

Finding the right sex toy for you can be extremely difficult. There are so many different kinds, it can be hard to choose. This week, I’m going to help you narrow it down by telling you the pros and cons of the three main materials sex toys are made from.

Silicone

Silicone is the most common material for sex toys to be made from. It’s easy to clean, non-porous and great for transmitting tantalising vibrations. It can be used on a range of toys, like dildos, butt plugs, vibrators and many more. The main drawbacks of silicone-based toys is that they pick up fluff, hair and dust like you wouldn’t believe, so you’ll want to store them in a bag or drawer away from potential contaminants. You also need to be careful not to use silicone-based lubes, as they will degrade your toys over time, so stick with water-based lubricants instead.

Glass

Smooth, hard and gorgeous to look at, glass sex toys feel decadent against your skin. But they aren’t just beautiful, they are also perfect for temperature play. Whether you want to heat them up or cool them down, they can do both. They are also deliciously firm, perfect for hitting those internal pleasure spots. They’re also very easy to clean, just a rinse with hot water and then leave them to dry, and they’ll be ready for your next session. You can also use any lubricant you like; no need to worry about damaging your toy.
Looking at a glass sex toy, you might start to worry about it breaking, but don’t worry, they are made from borosilicate glass. Borosilicate glass is super durable and won’t shatter into lots of sharp little pieces if dropped.

Metal

Metal toys are very similar to glass ones. They are great for temperature play, durable, and compatible with all kinds of lube. Where metal toys excel is with weight play. If you enjoy a heftiness to your toys, then a metal toy will be perfect for you, and they come in a range of weights so you can find one that suits you best. Some metal toys can also work with an electric current. So, if you want to try out electronic stimulation, they are the toy for you. Just make sure you get a metal toy designed specifically for electronic stimulation.

Ready to try out some new sex toys? You can find a range of toys for sale at online retailers like Lovehoney or Lelo. Have fun experimenting!

Do you prefer the intimate connection of a Girl Friend Experience, or are you more interested in exploring the darker sides of pleasure in a dirty BDSM session? This week, I have curated a selection of books to match your favourite extras. So, you can keep the fun going at home until you can visit us again.

The Girl Friend Experience AKA GFE

This recommendation is for those who love a night of cuddling and cozy affection. Building a more intimate connection than just good old-fashioned sex can provide. Elena Armas’ The Spanish Love Deception is the perfect romcom. You’ll follow main character, Catalina Martín, as she drags her infuriating coworker, Aaron Blackford, to a wedding in Spain to fool her family. It’s funny, flirty with the right hint of spice, just like the perfect GFE. 

The Naughty Girlfriend Experience AKA NGFE

Next up is the Naughty Girlfriend Experience, where the intimate connection of a GFE is combined with the naughtier side of pleasure. This could include spanking, dirty talk, rougher sex and all the other things you wish your girlfriend would do. To fulfil your naughty desires, I’d recommend Gifting Me To His Best Friend by Katee Roberts. Married couple Grayson and Emma decide to finally face the sexual tension between Emma and Grayson’s best friend Derek by gifting her to him for Christmas. But what will happen when Grayson starts to feel left out? This short novella is hot from start to finish; you’ll wish your partner was as naughty as this trio. 

The Porn Star Experience AKA PSE

Does the loud, hot and messy pleasure of a PSE leave you feeling sated? Then I think you should read (or even better, listen to) Caught Up by Navessa Allen. Nico “Junior” Trocci has a dark obsession with Lauren Marchetti, even if he knows she’s off limits. But paying for scantily clad or even fully pornographic videos online isn’t enough anymore; he’s ready to go after what he wants. Can Lauren fight the white-hot desire building between them? This book is red hot, and if you love voyeurism and exhibitionism, then you’ll love this. 

The BDSM Experience

For those of you with a love for all things kinky, I recommend Katee Robert’s Dark Olympus series, starting with Neon Gods. It is a dark romance series full of modern interpretations of Greek gods and heroes. Neon Gods focuses on Persephone and Hades and explores exhibitionism and BDSM. It’s a great combination of riveting story and raunchy sex scenes.

Have my recommendations left you hot, horny and wanting more? Then come down to Harlots and book your favourite experience with one of our stunning escorts.