Finding the right sex toy for you can be extremely difficult. There are so many different kinds, it can be hard to choose. This week, I’m going to help you narrow it down by telling you the pros and cons of the three main materials sex toys are made from.

Silicone

Silicone is the most common material for sex toys to be made from. It’s easy to clean, non-porous and great for transmitting tantalising vibrations. It can be used on a range of toys, like dildos, butt plugs, vibrators and many more. The main drawbacks of silicone-based toys is that they pick up fluff, hair and dust like you wouldn’t believe, so you’ll want to store them in a bag or drawer away from potential contaminants. You also need to be careful not to use silicone-based lubes, as they will degrade your toys over time, so stick with water-based lubricants instead.

Glass

Smooth, hard and gorgeous to look at, glass sex toys feel decadent against your skin. But they aren’t just beautiful, they are also perfect for temperature play. Whether you want to heat them up or cool them down, they can do both. They are also deliciously firm, perfect for hitting those internal pleasure spots. They’re also very easy to clean, just a rinse with hot water and then leave them to dry, and they’ll be ready for your next session. You can also use any lubricant you like; no need to worry about damaging your toy.
Looking at a glass sex toy, you might start to worry about it breaking, but don’t worry, they are made from borosilicate glass. Borosilicate glass is super durable and won’t shatter into lots of sharp little pieces if dropped.

Metal

Metal toys are very similar to glass ones. They are great for temperature play, durable, and compatible with all kinds of lube. Where metal toys excel is with weight play. If you enjoy a heftiness to your toys, then a metal toy will be perfect for you, and they come in a range of weights so you can find one that suits you best. Some metal toys can also work with an electric current. So, if you want to try out electronic stimulation, they are the toy for you. Just make sure you get a metal toy designed specifically for electronic stimulation.

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Ready to try out some new sex toys? You can find a range of toys for sale at online retailers like Lovehoney or Lelo. Have fun experimenting!

Do you prefer the intimate connection of a Girl Friend Experience, or are you more interested in exploring the darker sides of pleasure in a dirty BDSM session? This week, I have curated a selection of books to match your favourite extras. So, you can keep the fun going at home until you can visit us again.

The Girl Friend Experience AKA GFE

This recommendation is for those who love a night of cuddling and cozy affection. Building a more intimate connection than just good old-fashioned sex can provide. Elena Armas’ The Spanish Love Deception is the perfect romcom. You’ll follow main character, Catalina Martín, as she drags her infuriating coworker, Aaron Blackford, to a wedding in Spain to fool her family. It’s funny, flirty with the right hint of spice, just like the perfect GFE. 

The Naughty Girlfriend Experience AKA NGFE

Next up is the Naughty Girlfriend Experience, where the intimate connection of a GFE is combined with the naughtier side of pleasure. This could include spanking, dirty talk, rougher sex and all the other things you wish your girlfriend would do. To fulfil your naughty desires, I’d recommend Gifting Me To His Best Friend by Katee Roberts. Married couple Grayson and Emma decide to finally face the sexual tension between Emma and Grayson’s best friend Derek by gifting her to him for Christmas. But what will happen when Grayson starts to feel left out? This short novella is hot from start to finish; you’ll wish your partner was as naughty as this trio. 

The Porn Star Experience AKA PSE

Does the loud, hot and messy pleasure of a PSE leave you feeling sated? Then I think you should read (or even better, listen to) Caught Up by Navessa Allen. Nico “Junior” Trocci has a dark obsession with Lauren Marchetti, even if he knows she’s off limits. But paying for scantily clad or even fully pornographic videos online isn’t enough anymore; he’s ready to go after what he wants. Can Lauren fight the white-hot desire building between them? This book is red hot, and if you love voyeurism and exhibitionism, then you’ll love this. 

The BDSM Experience

For those of you with a love for all things kinky, I recommend Katee Robert’s Dark Olympus series, starting with Neon Gods. It is a dark romance series full of modern interpretations of Greek gods and heroes. Neon Gods focuses on Persephone and Hades and explores exhibitionism and BDSM. It’s a great combination of riveting story and raunchy sex scenes.

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Have my recommendations left you hot, horny and wanting more? Then come down to Harlots Mackay and book your favourite experience with one of our stunning escorts.

Dating in the 21st century can be stressful and exhausting. There are so many dating apps available, and each one is slightly different. So I’m here to explain how four of the apps work (and don’t work).

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Tinder

You’ve probably heard of Tinder; it’s been around since 2012 and introduced us all to the concept of swiping right. On this app, you build your profile and then start swiping through your prospects, right for yes and left for no. If both people swipe right on each other’s profile, a match is made, and you can start chatting. Most profiles on Tinder are slim on the details and tend to showcase a person’s best physical assets. So, I’ve found Tinder to be better suited for casual hookups than long-term connections.

Bumble

Bumble launched in 2014 with a similar concept to Tinder. You still swipe right for yes and left for no, but when you match with someone, the woman has to message first. Non-binary folk can opt to be the one messaging first or not & for same-sex matches, either person can reach out. If you don’t reach out within 24 hours, the match is lost. Bumble is definitely more focused towards building connections versus hook-ups, but the 24-hour timer can be a buzz-kill for someone forgetful and busy (like me).

Hinge

The app ‘designed to be deleted,’ Hinge was made for finding long-term connections. Instead of only viewing matches when you both like each other, you get to see any person who likes your profile straight away. However, you can only have 8 people waiting for you to reply at a time. So, you need to keep the conversation going or drop people if you aren’t vibing. I find Hinge to be my personal favourite of all the apps; it definitely feels less like doom-scrolling for matches when you can see that someone has liked you. 

Feeld

Feeld, formerly known as 3nder, is perfect for people into ethical non-monogamy, polyamory and kink. It has a designated section for listing your kinks and relationship preferences, making it easier to match with like-minded people. This app is great for finding just the right hook-up or person to explore your kinks with.

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Now that you know a bit more about the apps, you can jump right in and start dating. But don’t worry if you’re still feeling overwhelmed, the stunning escorts at Harlots are always here to put you at ease and help explore your desires.

Have you been thinking about buying a new vibrator for yourself or your partner? Well, do I have the recommendation for you!

Womanizer is one of the top sex toy brands, and their Womanizer Duo 2 is proof of it. The Duo 2 combines a clitoral stimulator with a powerful G-spot vibrator, so you can hit both pleasure centres at the same time. There are 14 intensity levels and 10 different vibration patterns to choose from. As well as two different stimulation heads to fit different-shaped vaginas. Finding the right rhythm for your pleasure has never been easier. 

The Duo 2 is easy to clean and quick to charge. Although the magnetic charger can be a bit finicky. I would recommend you double-check that the charging light is flashing, the toy is secure, and it won’t be easily bumped to ensure it is fully charged when you want to play. There is nothing worse than being ready for a round of pleasure only to find out your favourite toy is out of battery.

One of the best features of the Duo 2 is its Afterglow function. Once you’ve brought yourself to a mind-numbing orgasm, you can short-press the power button to bring the intensity level down to the lowest setting. This means you can drag your orgasm out for longer without overstimulating your clitoris.

Another bonus of buying a Womanizer product is their 5-year warranty. If your vibrator breaks, simply submit a warranty request with the retailer you purchased it from and you will be well on your way to receiving a replacement.

If this piqued your interest, you can buy a Womanizer Duo 2 from Amazon or Lovehoney.

Happy Shopping! 

Let’s be real, first dates are already weird. Add the fact that your date is a professional bombshell, and the stakes feel even higher. Suddenly you’re worrying about everything — what to say, where to go, how not to accidentally turn into a puddle of nervous sweat.

Fear not. Whether you’re a seasoned date-booker or it’s your first rodeo, the right plan can turn “awkward and fumbling” into “cool and charming.” Here’s your ultimate cheat sheet of first date ideas that’ll actually be fun, for both of you.

Coffee Date (AKA “The Warm-Up Round”)

A coffee shop is the ultimate first date pre-game. Low-commitment, high-potential. You get caffeine, casual conversation, and an easy exit if it’s not vibing. Plus, you can always say, “Let’s grab another somewhere else” if things are going well.

Pro Tip:
Pick a café that’s actually good, no one’s feeling romantic under fluorescent lights, sipping burnt drip coffee. Bonus points for choosing somewhere with good pastries. Flirting over croissants? It’s practically French.

Art Gallery or Museum (The “I’m Interesting, I Swear” Move)

Pretend you’re cultured! (Or, you know, actually be cultured — either way works.) Wandering through art gives you endless conversation starters: “Do you get this painting?” “Could I pull off that ancient Roman look?” Instant icebreakers.

Pro Tip:
Steer clear of the weird modern art section unless you’re both secretly 12-year-olds who can giggle at giant abstract sculptures named “Self-Reflection in Blue.” (Actually… maybe that’s a vibe.)

Drinks at a Cool, Low-Key Bar (Not a Boozy Apocalypse)

You want a lounge, not a sweaty nightclub. Think velvet couches, soft lighting, and cocktail names that are slightly ridiculous. (“I’ll have the Flirtini with a side of regrettable life choices, thanks.”)

Pro Tip:
Have a two-drink limit in mind. You want flirty tipsy, not “confessing your childhood trauma” tipsy.

Sunset Walk or a Chill Park Picnic (Wholesome AF)

Walking side-by-side is way less intense than sitting across from each other in some intense eye-lock standoff. Plus, a little nature makes everyone 40% more charming. (Scientific fact I just made up.)

Pro Tip:
Bring something to share: a thermos of coffee, a couple of cheeky cupcakes, or even a mini speaker for chill background music. Instant “aww” points.

Play Games (Mini-Golf, Bowling, Arcade — Channel Your Inner Kid)

When in doubt, do something silly. Mini-golf? Bowling? Retro arcade games? They’re perfect for cutting through the nerves because you’re focusing more on playing than impressing.

Pro Tip:
Let them win just enough. Competitive banter = flirting gold!

Bonus First Date Ideas (Rapid Fire Round):

• Pizza Crawl: Best slices in town. Taste test. Full stomachs = full hearts.
• Bookstore Date: Buy each other a random book based only on the cover. Hilarious (and you look smart).
• Cooking Class: Nothing bonds people faster than collectively setting a crème brûlée on fire.
• Comedy Show: If you can’t laugh together, what’s the point?

Final Tips for Ultimate Non-Awkwardness:

• Don’t Treat It Like a Transaction: Even though it’s a booking, you’re still two humans hanging out. Chill, laugh, connect (just not on too deep a level)
• Avoid the “So What’s Your Craziest Client Story” Trap: She’s heard it a thousand times. Trust me.
• Be Normal: (Easier said than done, but seriously. Be. Normal.)
• Relax: Escorts are pros, not just at sex, but at making people feel good and comfortable. You’re in good hands. Literally and metaphorically.

Now go forth and be charming, you absolute legend. 😎

The wonders of technology have made finding and booking escort services easier than ever, but not without their downsides! Here are a few common typos, autocorrections and misspellings that make me chuckle.

Hey Abby

This one has nothing to do with an escort named Abby! Every so often ‘Hey baby’ turns into an awkward explanation of ‘Yeah, I actually didn’t mean to call you Abby.’ The less entertaining version of this is “abbe” instead of “babe.”

Escorts & Baby

Sometimes the ad platforms suffer from typos, like “escorts and baby” or “akkoka” instead of their proper names. It’s easy enough to figure out what you meant but I still think “locanot” sounds like a magic spell.

Sexcorts & Escrow

Even though it’s one of the most popular terms in this industry, ‘escort’ is far from immune! Whether it’s part of a text message, ad or in a search query, ‘escort’ sees its fair share of errors. “Excort” sounds like a description of service providers who have left the industry whereas “Sexcorts” gets right to the point! “Escrow” always makes me chuckle since it’s such a formal finance term.

What The Duck?

This list would be incomplete without mentioning the champion of all autocorrection fails; duck. “Duck” steals the show from both ‘fuck’ like in “I want to duck” and ‘dick’ when giving instructions like “suck my duck,” making it a remarkably versatile typo.

Autocorrections and typos are part of essentially all digital communication so it’s no surprise to find those mistakes in the adult industry. We keep in touch with so many people in this line of work so things would get pretty boring if we couldn’t have a giggle at the hiccups. We will leave all talk of escrow to the finance sector, but if you’re interested in some gorgeous escorts, you can check them out here!

Photographs are one of the biggest parts of advertising in the sex industry. From the obvious appeal to clients to the more technological advantages, having a good selection of photos is crucial in effective advertising.

The Obvious

The most obvious reason why photographs are so valuable is that clients want to know what they are getting! While written descriptions and stats provide a good baseline, photographs are the easiest way to accurately depict your figure and style and even capture some of your personality. Choose photos that show off your best physical features; like great tits in a lacy bralette or stilettos to show off your legs. You can also use photos to show off what you offer; if intimate GFE’s are your thing, then maybe a sun dress and a rose can set the mood but if your specialty is BDSM, pose with some toys to remind clients what’s on offer.

Advertising Platforms

When uploading photos to various platforms, many have a minimum number of photos required for publication. Having a variety means your profile can appear on as many platforms as possible, and therefore reach more potential clients! Some platforms also prefer to display ads with more photos first, so even if you look stunning in your one photo, your ad might be the last one displayed. 

Online Performance

When it comes to digital performance metrics like SEO or clickthrough rates, there are two basic principles to help give your ads a boost; regular content and unique content. This means that copy-and-paste is not the best way to go. Try to mix up your content, with both text and images. If you can, have a few different blurbs about yourself written and a gallery of photos in a variety of formats/sizes to make sure you can maximise your online advertising performance.

Bonus

The technical know-how is great and all, but for most people there is an unexpected confidence boost that comes with new photos too! That goes for all-out professional shoots and #feltcute selfies alike. There’s nothing wrong with taking a moment to appreciate yourself!

It may seem obvious, but a selection of quality photos can make a huge difference in your advertising. From helping appear first in the gallery to showcasing what it is you do best, photos are a great investment to get started or give your existing profile a boost! 

Happy snapping!

Sure, many brothels have a fancy VIP or Deluxe suite and some might even have a Dungeon for getting kinky, but how many brothels do you know that have a Gamers’ Lounge?

It’s light-hearted and quirky but don’t be mistaken, it’s been the preferred destination for many a booking. Here are some of the top reasons why!

Turn On The Console Before Getting Turned On

Especially for first-time clients, the nerves of making a booking can get the better of you! Video games are a great icebreaker; they give you something to do while you get to know each other. Many clients are looking for company more than actual sex, so there’s no shame in enjoying a laugh before getting frisky! 

X-Rated Twists To Classic Games

Just like turning poker into a barely-clothed event, there are plenty of ways to spice up classic console games. Maybe it’s stripping a piece of clothing each time you lose, or the winner gets to decide what position is up next. Maybe you can cash in-game points for real-world pleasures. 

Fantasy Fulfillment

There is something so hot about a gorgeous babe lying on the bed with a controller in her hands. The temptation to interrupt her concentration with another kind of joystick is just too strong. Let us make that dream a reality; you can enjoy watching her play games while you can play with her. 

On the other hand, maybe you can challenge yourself to keep levelling up while she tries to distract you in increasingly naughty ways. Let the sexual tension build until you finally give in and give her your full attention.

There are countless reasons you might be looking for company so if you are interested in something a little more fun, maybe the Gamers’ Lounge is for you! Before diving into round one, establish the costs and ground rules so you can enjoy round after round of gaming and bedroom pleasure! Check out the babes working at Harlots Canberra here.

Girl Friend Experiences are known for their cozy and intimate vibe but that’s no excuse to let your presentation standards drop. Having a few quality products on hand can make getting ready for a romantic dinner date or movie night a breeze. 

Kiss Me Lipstick

If kissing is in your GFE repertoire, then choosing a smudge-proof lipstick is probably a wise idea. This is especially true if you are going to his place; leaving kiss marks on a napkin is a cute memento but on his pillow cases is just inconvenient. You could also keep things simple with a lip gloss.

Shower Scenes & Pillowtalk

Some people find that a full face makes them feel confident & sexy, others find it difficult to maintain. Regardless of what you prefer, if your GFE features lots of cuddling, then it’s a good idea to find products that wont transfer to his clothes or linen. If you offer showering together, look into water-proof products or setting sprays. Its also a good idea to have your main products in a travel case for quick touch-ups.

Colour Palette & Style

Girl Friend Experiences are often softer, more romantic and intimate, so your make-up choice might reflect that too. You could swap your statement black wings for a softer brown eyeliner with warm eyeshadow. If you’re a glam fan, you could trade your chunky glitter cut-crease for a softer half cut-crease with a shimmery eyeshadow. However, your unique style is probably what caught your client’s attention so don’t feel the need to dress it down! If your signature look is 2000s punk-scene eyeliner, then don’t let the romance of a GFE change it!

When deciding what products to include in your go-bag, you should choose things that make you feel confident and sexy. Services that include lots of face contact might require an extra strength setting spray or some additional touch-ups throughout your shift.

Sometimes the decision to seek out some adult company is an impulsive, heat-of-the-moment desire, but for some people that decision is part of a well-thought-out schedule. Here are a few points to consider next time you’re thinking about finding a partner-in-fantasy.

Your Schedule

For some people, the 9-5 office job means that all their adult entertainment has to happen out of hours, but for others, a quick fling is the perfect lunchtime stress relief! We have done plenty of outcalls to people making the most of their ‘working from home’ arrangements too! If you have other responsibilities, then maybe sticking to weekends or late nights is the most convenient.

Escort Availability

Some independent escorts are available 24/7 provided you give enough notice and/or pay a deposit, but others may work within quite rigid hours. If you are looking for a specific private escort, then you will have to consider their schedule as well. The more flexible option would be establishments that work with local and touring escorts during their opening hours to give you a selection of service providers to choose from. Some establishments are open 24/7 with a varying number of escorts on shifts at any given time. At Harlots, we believe that providing quality service means making sure the escorts we work with have enough time to rest and rejuvenate between shifts. So while we aren’t open 24/7, you know that when our doors open we are ready and able to go above and beyond when it comes to making your dreams come true. 

Specific Requests

This is the niche section that most people don’t have to consider but if you do have very specific requests for your service provider, it might be worth a read! For things that are exceptionally physically demanding (like intense BDSM scenes), require preparation (like golden-, brown, or roman showers) or require significant cleaning (like either of the aforementioned examples), then giving your service provider a heads-up would be greatly appreciated. There may be a preferred time, day or location for those bookings.

Whether you decide to start your day with a bang or finish your night with one, Harlots are happy to be part of your next adult adventure. We appreciate your busy schedule and can introduce you to service providers who are passionate about passion too! Let us know if you have any specific requests that might impact your booking time, and let us make your dream come true!