Month: February 2024

Other than the feel-good climax, there are other benefits of getting steamy! Here are some of the perks of getting down and dirty between the sheets:

Workout Boost

Sex can be a great chance to get your blood flowing! You get your heart pumping, muscles flexing, and even burn some calories.

Stress Buster

Feeling stressed? Consider getting busy in the bedroom as well as at work. Sex releases endorphins leading to reduced stress and improved mood.

Immune System Warrior

Regular romps might help keep you from getting sick. It’s believed to increase the production of antibodies and boost the immune system.

Sleep Aid

Ever notice how you feel all cozy and sleepy after a roll in the hay? That’s the magic of sex-induced relaxation. Feel free to book overnight for a real escape into bliss.

Pain Relief

Those endorphins we mentioned also act as painkillers, providing temporary relief from all kinds of aches and pains. Time for some ‘self-medication?’

Heart Health

A healthy heart is a happy heart. Studies suggest that regular sexual activity is associated with a decreased risk of heart attacks and strokes. That’s a pretty great excuse!

Confidence Boost

Feeling on top of the world! Positive experiences in bed can boost your confidence and make you feel awesome about your body.

Life Expectancy

They say sex is the elixir of life. While it might not grant you eternal life, it might add some extra years to your clock.

These perks can vary from person to person, but if you’re having a good time and keeping it safe, why not enjoy the benefits? Contact us to kickstart your new favourite healthy habit!

Pros:

Exploration and Variety

A threesome can offer an opportunity to explore new sexual experiences and introduce variety into a relationship. While some people are satisfied with routine, we really appreciate the desire to spice things up by adding a third.

Enhanced Intimacy and Connection

For some couples, a threesome can lead to increased intimacy and strengthen the emotional bond between partners. This may come as a consequence of heightened arousal, new types of pleasure or the emotional satisfaction of mutual enjoyment of someone else. 

Fantasy Fulfillment

For some people, threesomes are a spontaneous decision, for others they are legendary, elusive fantasies. Partaking in a threesome can literally make dreams come true!

Improved Communication

Engaging in open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and consent is crucial before having a threesome. This can lead to better communication skills in the relationship, not just in the bedroom, but in a number of settings. 

Boosted Self-Confidence

For some participants, the experience can help boost self-confidence and self-esteem. Whether it is seeing how lucky you are for having a partner capable of pleasing two people at once, or being the center of attention!

Cons:

Jealousy and Insecurity

On the flip side, threesomes can sometimes lead to jealousy or feelings of insecurity, especially if there are unresolved issues in the relationship.

Complicated Emotions

Threesomes can evoke complex emotions that individuals may not anticipate, making it essential to address these feelings afterward. Make sure you set aside some time afterwards to talk through any thoughts or feelings that arise.

Health and Safety Concerns

Threesomes, especially with new partners, may increase the risk of sexually transmitted infections if proper precautions, such as condom use and regular testing, are not taken. It is crucial to take all appropriate precautions to ensure that everyone is as safe as possible!

Boundary Violations

Without clear communication and consent, boundaries may be crossed, leading to discomfort and potential harm.

Social Stigma

Some individuals and communities may still stigmatize or judge those who engage in threesomes or other non-traditional sexual activities. Don’t let this deter you! There are countless people that support, enjoy and thrive in group sex activities! Plus, it can be your naughty little secret if you don’t want anyone else to know.

Experimentation with the same sex can bring various positive aspects to one’s life. Here are some potential pros:

Self-Discovery

Exploring same-sex attraction can lead to a deeper understanding of one’s own identity.

Open-Mindedness

Engaging in same-sex experimentation can foster open-mindedness and acceptance of diverse sexual orientations.

Enhanced Empathy

Walking in someone else’s shoes can increase empathy and compassion towards individuals with different experiences.

Breaking Free from Stereotypes

Challenging social norms and stereotypes can lead to personal growth and empowerment.

Expanded Social Circle

By meeting people who share similar experiences, you can expand your social circle and create positive relationships. This offers a network of support for yourself and others.

Improved Communication

Engaging in open conversations about desires and limits can lead to better communication skills in relationships. This can help you navigate conversations about sexuality with those around you.

Increased Sexual Confidence

Understanding and embracing one’s own desires can boost sexual confidence and self-esteem.

Authenticity

Embracing same-sex experimentation can lead to living a more authentic life. Accepting your attraction means getting to know yourself better.

Supportive Community

Becoming a part of the LGBTQ+ community can provide a sense of belonging and support. This is through shared experiences and mutual respect.

Mind-Opening Experience

Experimenting with the same sex can open your mind to new perspectives and experiences that you might not have considered before.

It’s important to approach any form of experimentation, including exploring same-sex attractions, with an open heart and a commitment to understanding your feelings and desires. Remember to prioritize communication, consent, and personal comfort throughout the process. Self-awareness and self-acceptance are key factors in making the experience a positive and fulfilling one.

So, you have decided to find some company for the evening and now you are faced with deciding upon who the lucky companion will be. With such a huge selection available, there are a few tips & tricks to help narrow it down.

Profiles and Ads

To avoid the heartache (and possible cash lost) of a catfish, check that the profile is authentic. Plenty of platforms have a verification system that marks profiles as ‘verified’ once they have completed certain identification measures. If you book a private lady, be prepared to provide deposits or ID. It’s a security measure for them but can be risky for you. Booking through verified agencies/brothels is the easiest way to maintain your privacy and meet the lady you saw online.

Looks

Beauty is more than meets the eye, but there’s no shame in admitting if you have a ‘type.’ Whether it’s blonde, brunette, BBW or busty, you can definitely find someone who catches your eye! Don’t be afraid to mix it up though, it’s always fun to try new things.

Extras

What you have planned is also an important factor when choosing a companion. Standard service at Harlots includes erotic massage, handjob, protected blowjob and protected sex. Anything else is an “extra” and not all ladies offer all extras! When booking, be sure to confirm that the lady you like offers the extras you want. We can often help direct you to ladies who offer what you have in mind. 

When and Where

Location and timing are next on the list; check out their availability/shift times and make sure you are asking for a booking within those times. While by-appointment bookings can be made under certain circumstances (like for regular clients, multi-hour bookings and/or by paying a non-refundable deposit), it’s best to stick within the listed hours when planning a booking. Keep in mind that the laws of your state or territory may impact whether or not outcalls are available and the legality of booking a lady privately.

Personality

One of the biggest attractions of meeting in an establishment is the chance to chat with multiple ladies before deciding on who you would like to spend some time with. This means you can get a feel for their personality before committing to paying anything. There is also the added bonus of the possibility of booking two ladies at once!

Regardless of who you end up spending time with, Harlots promises quality companionship and a wide selection of ladies to choose from. There’s never been a better time to come and see for yourself.