Prior to photograph and video content of erotic scenes and stories, written literature was a popular avenue for expressing lustful thoughts. Love letters were exchanged between couples, sometimes including graphic descriptions, drawings or photographs. Yet published works often faced scrutiny and censorship by printing companies and publishers. Despite this, D.H. Lawrence’s 1928 novel “Lady Chatterley’s Lover” shocked the world with its explicit language and graphic descriptions. Lawsuits, book bans and censorship debates ensued and the novel remains one of great controversy.

About The Book

“Lady Chatterley’s Lover” is a tale of forbidden love and sexual awakening set in post-World War I England. The story follows beautiful Lady Chatterley, who finds herself trapped in a loveless marriage to an impotent veteran. Seeking satisfaction outside her marriage, she embarks on a passionate affair with the estate’s gamekeeper.

The Response

At the time of its publication, Lady Chatterley’s Lover was outrageously provocative. The language used was enough to make people blush but the detailed descriptions of sex were almost unheard of in published literature. Over the years, several governments banned the book including the UK, the US as well as here in Australia until 1968. 

One of the greatest changes this raunchy read sparked was the 1960 obscenity trial where the publishing house Penguin Books successfully fought for the right to publish the uncensored edition. Censorship was an ongoing social issue; some feared that unregulated publishing could break down all sense of right and wrong. Others believed that published literature was an extension of freedom of speech rights. Lady Chatterley’s Lover was defended because of its explicit nature and how it symbolised freedom of expression for other topics. The publishing of sexually explicit literature awakened a knowledge of and desire for adult material in the public. Authors were able to broaden their skills and cater to a new and growing audience.

From a publishing industry perspective, “Lady Chatterley’s Lover” marked a turning point in the way adult content was perceived and handled. Having successfully challenged censorship laws, publishers were able to take risks and defend controversial works. Despite the international backlash Lady Chatterley’s Lover received initially, the years that followed saw a huge increase in the amount and intensity of adult novels.

Lady Chatterley’s Lover is among the most influential pieces in publishing history precisely because of its divisive nature. While it remains censored and banned by some countries, its effect on censorship laws paved the way for adult material. Despite its paper-and-ink origins, Lady Chatterley’s Lover remains an important landmark as the sex industry continues to grapple with censorship and social advocacy in the digital age. Without these provocative pages, erotic media in all forms would likely still be subject to even greater censorship laws.

While long-term, exclusive relationships can meet our emotional needs, they come with their own costs. Sometimes it’s more practical to skip the romance and agree upon a strictly physical arrangement. Friends With Benefits, F-buddies and No-Strings-Attached, whatever the title, here’s how to keep it from falling apart.

Kicking off a new situation-ship can be a lot of fun, but sooner or later you will have to have an honest discussion about what you are both seeking from it. I opt for having that discussion SOONER. Lay out the ground rules; every dynamic will be different but they usually have a few things in common.

We Are Not Exclusive

There is nothing stopping you from seeing others and the same goes for me. In most cases, I don’t care or want to know about them and I probably won’t want to talk about my other hook ups. If you get serious about someone else, just let me know the deal is off. No hard feelings when the arrangement changes or ends!

When & Where

Depending on the circumstances, we might make some rules about when and where we get dirty. For example, we can hang out with a mutual friend together but we won’t be catching up with each other unless it’s to get freaky. Nothing even resembling a date. You can have those boundaries too! Maybe your place is off-limits because it means meeting your cat, and hey, that’s just way too personal for a no-strings-attached.

This Is Not A Movie

It’s a classic gag; two people become friends with benefits and before long, one of them catches feelings. These rules exist to stop that from happening so if you start getting butterflies, take a step back before you find yourself head over heels. This arrangement falls apart if you forget the basic premises; no strings attached!

Don’t Be Weird About It

For whatever reason, this will end and chances are we’ll still be in the same social circles. Don’t overthink things or make them messy. If you have things you want to talk about, we can talk! We are still friends, with or without the benefits. 

Good sex can be hard to come by, and you don’t have to date exclusively to make the most of a good roll in the sheets! Be honest with yourself and your F-buddy, and you might just be able to pull off a no-strings-attached deal.

1. Capturing Attention

High-quality images have the ability to immediately draw the viewer’s attention, inviting them to explore further. Whether it’s a sultry glance, an alluring pose, or an evocative scene, photos have the capacity to create an instant connection with the audience. Our written bios allow for some more details but the photos are the real eye-candy. The simple eroticism of photos helps remind clients exactly what they are looking for. 

2. Bridging Language and Cultural Barriers

Photos transcend language and cultural barriers, making them an ideal tool for advertising to a diverse audience. The visual nature of photos ensures that the message is understood universally, regardless of linguistic or cultural differences. We are proud to have a diverse clientele base and photos make it easy to stay on the same page.

3. Enhancing Engagement on Social Media

Social media is a cornerstone of modern advertising, and in the adult industry, it’s no different. Photos are the most shareable and engaging content on these platforms. By incorporating compelling images, we can help share the love with as many people as possible!

4. Finding Your ‘Type’

Everybody has their type, and there’s no shame in knowing exactly what you want! High-quality photographs allow clients to see what’s in store, decide between escorts and get to the good stuff sooner! Often, these pictures are partially obscured for privacy, so you’ll have to come in-house to see everyone’s beautiful faces!

5. Getting To Know The Escort

Photographs can help clients get to know each of the escorts, what they offer and a bit about their personality; perhaps they are reaching out to warmly embrace you, or are shackled up in The Dungeon!

6. Establishing Brand Identity

We had to include this one; using consistent colour palettes, logos or styles helps create consistency. It can enhance the portfolio of an individual escort or help identify escorts as part of Harlots! This makes it easy to spot our escorts online so you know what to expect when booking.

The sex appeal of sex work is easier to convey than ever through high-quality, easily accessible photos. They allow us to convey the aesthetics, figure and personality of each escort, and allow you to imagine all the naughty things you two could get up to! We provide top-quality service in every booking, and our photos are just a teaser!

While the experience we aim to provide transcends mere sex appeal, there is no denying the drool-worthy photography that helps make it happen! Photos are such a crucial part of advertising in the adult industry for several reasons.

A threesome with two stunning babes is one of the most popular fantasies, and for good reason! There are plenty of reasons why booking two escorts is more than double the fun!

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

These two fetishes are the perfect pair for a threesome. Voyeurism is the pleasure you feel when watching others engage in sexual activity, and exhibitionism is deriving pleasure from being watched. Regardless of which takes your fancy, booking a double is the perfect way to promise a good show!

For Nervous Clients

While it may seem overwhelming at first, spending company with two babes can actually help relieve any awkwardness; it gives you a chance to sit back and catch your breath while the babes can entertain each other. When a one-on-one intimate moment seems too self-centred take pleasure in knowing that the escorts will gladly share their attention with each other and yourself however you like.

For Thrill-Seekers

If you are growing bored of your usual routine, a double can definitely help spice things up! The opportunities, extras and positions made available by adding a second escort can intensify an otherwise vanilla booking.

Regardless of why you choose to book a double, Harlots escorts guarantee a fantastic time! There are plenty of poses, acts, kinks and fetishes that are made possible with a third person, and even more if you choose to add another! Good luck choosing just two escorts from our gorgeous roster though! xx

So, you have decided to find some company for the evening and now you are faced with deciding upon who the lucky companion will be. With such a huge selection available, there are a few tips & tricks to help narrow it down.

Profiles and Ads

To avoid the heartache (and possible cash lost) of a catfish, check that the profile is authentic. Plenty of platforms have a verification system that marks profiles as ‘verified’ once they have completed certain identification measures. If you book a private escort, be prepared to provide deposits or ID. It’s a security measure for them but can be risky for you. Booking through verified agencies/brothels is the easiest way to maintain your privacy and meet the escort you saw online.

Looks

Beauty is more than meets the eye, but there’s no shame in admitting if you have a ‘type.’ Whether it’s blonde, brunette, BBW or busty, you can definitely find someone who catches your eye! Don’t be afraid to mix it up though, it’s always fun to try new things.

Extras

What you have planned is also an important factor when choosing a companion. Standard service at Harlots includes erotic massage, handjob, protected blowjob and protected sex. Anything else is an “extra” and not all ladies offer all extras! When booking, be sure to confirm that the escort you like offers the extras you want. We can often help direct you to escorts that offer what you have in mind. 

When and Where

Location and timing are next on the list; check out their availability/shift times and make sure you are asking for a booking within those times. While by-appointment bookings can be made under certain circumstances (like for regular clients, multi-hour bookings and/or by paying a non-refundable deposit), it’s best to stick within the listed hours when planning a booking. Keep in mind that not all escorts offer outcalls either, so if you have your heart set on a romantic night out in a hotel you will have to choose a companion who offers outcalls.

Personality

One of the biggest attractions of meeting in an establishment is the chance to chat with multiple escorts before deciding on who you would like to spend some time with. This means you can get a feel for their personality before committing to paying anything. There is also the added bonus of the possibility of booking two escorts at once!

Regardless of who you end up spending time with, Harlots promises quality companionship and a wide selection of escorts to choose from. There’s never been a better time to come and see for yourself.

Fetishes are sexual interests or preferences that are outside of what is considered ‘normal’. Here at Harlots, we LOVE spicing up time in the bedroom, and there are plenty of reasons why you should too!

Enhanced Arousal

For individuals with fetishes, engaging in their preferred activities or objects can lead to heightened arousal and sexual excitement. We want to maximise every moment of pleasure too!

Novelty and Variety

Fetishes bring that much-needed spice to your sex life. Say goodbye to boring routines and hello to wild and exciting adventures.

Creative Exploration

Exploring fetishes means diving into the world of imagination and creativity. It’s all about trying out new things and having fun with it.

Embrace Your Preferences

Fetishes can be pretty unique, but that’s the beauty of it. Embracing your quirks and fantasies can make you feel more comfortable in your skin.

Compatibility

It can be tricky to find someone who is into the same things as you, but you can come in whenever we are open and discuss things with the ladies available.

Self-Discovery

Finding out what turns you on can be an enlightening journey of self-discovery. You might learn things about yourself you never knew.

It’s all about consent, communication, and being comfortable with your partner. As long as you’re both having a good time and respecting each other’s boundaries, fetishes can add some serious fun to your sex life.

Well, it was fun while it lasted but you got busted spending some time with someone you shouldn’t have been seeing and now you’re in the dog house. Whatever the reason why, if there’s any chance of salvaging your relationship, there are some basic steps to follow.

Acknowledge Responsibility

Admit to your actions and take full responsibility for your behaviour. Denying or minimizing what happened will only complicate the situation further. This means recognising that the choices you made impacted someone else.

Sincerely Apologize

Offer a heartfelt and sincere apology to your partner. Express remorse for your actions and the hurt you’ve caused. Acknowledge the pain they’re feeling and show that you understand the gravity of your mistake. This is NOT the time to bring up their mistakes or to give excuses.

Give Space

After apologizing, give your partner space to process their emotions. This may mean sticking it out in the dog house (or sleeping on the couch) a little longer. They deserve the chance to think about things and decide how they want to move forward. Let them know that you are ready to talk whenever they are.

Be Honest and Transparent

If your partner has questions about the situation, answer them honestly. Transparency is essential for rebuilding trust, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Reflect and Change

Take some time to reflect on why you cheated. Understanding the underlying reasons can help you avoid repeating them in the future. If you’re serious about repairing the relationship, commit to making changes in your behaviour and addressing any issues. This might mean new boundaries and therapy for one or both of you.

Cut Off Contact

Finally, for everyone’s sake, cut off contact with the person you cheated with. It will help solidify your intentions to your partner and keep you from making the same mistake again!

There’s no guarantee that things will return to normal, after all, it’s a pretty awful experience to be cheated on, but these steps are foundational to getting anyone out of the dog house. Good luck, Fido.

At some point answering texts and calls, we hear the phrase “this might be weird, but…” The first time I heard someone say that, I braced myself for something extreme but after a while, I realised that the vast majority of requests are far more normal than clients realised. So, in an effort to destigmatise these things and put your mind at ease next time you reach out, here are some common “this might be weird, but…” requests!

“…do your ladies offer pegging?”

Absolutely! There are plenty of our ladies who offer pegging. The biggest hurdle when making a booking with pegging is giving us notice so that we can let the lady know to bring in her gear. Don’t stress if you are in a time crunch, though, we often have some harnesses and toys available for sale at reception. 

“…what about golden showers?”

This request is way more common than most people realise! We will need some heads-up for this booking too of course, but its offered by plenty of escorts.

“…I don’t even want to have sex”

While we love getting steamy, we all need to slow down sometimes. Spending time alone with another person cuddling or even just talking is an under-rated way to recharge. Human contact is lovely, and any of our escorts would enjoy the chance to unwind with you.

“…I’m a virgin”

So were we at some point! Who better to explore intimacy with than a qualified sexpert! You don’t have to disclose this kind of info to anyone, but if you are nervous about getting it on, our escorts can slow things down and make sure you’re looked after.

“…I have this fantasy”

Chances are, we have heard it before and are more than happy to make it come true! When requesting fantasies, role-plays and BDSM bookings, it’s important to keep in mind that not every escort offers every service. Feel free to browse the escort’s listed extras, and then narrow it down by talking to reception about their availability. Once it gets down to the nitty-gritty details, you will have to come in to have a chat with the lucky babe in person.

As long as you are respectful of us and our answers, we don’t mind what your request is! There’s no point keeping it a secret if we could make it come true!

Expand your vocabulary and get inspiration for your next booking with this A to Z list of Kinks, Fetishes and Sex Acts!

A is for Analingus: also known as rimming, this is the oral stimulation of someone’s anus.

B is for Blindfold: the sensory deprivation of not being able to see your partner is a serious turn-on!

C is for Cunnilingus: this is the technical term for oral sex performed on a woman.

D is for Deepthroat: a seriously intense BJ experience featured in plenty of Porn Star Experiences.

E is for Exhibition: the sexual gratification of being watched while getting dirty. To match, there’s Voyeurism which is the sexual gratification of watching others.

F is for Flavour: with flavoured dams, condoms and lube, there’s no shortage of flavours you can have in the bedroom.

Bonus!

F is for Food Play: Going hand-in-hand with flavoured lube and condoms is food play, like licking chocolate sauce or whipped cream off your partner’s body.

G is for Greek: more commonly referred to as Anal, this is the penetration of an anus.

H is for Humiliation: any physical or verbal form of humiliation by either party.

I is for Impact play: and whether you want to punish or BE punished, there are all sorts of toys available.

J is for JOI: Jerk-Off Instructions can be part of edging or humiliation scenes which are a great way to break the ice before launching into fun together.

K is for Katoptronophilia: that real mouthful of a word means arousal from having sex in front of a mirror. If the thought of watching yourself with one of our babes gets you going, consider upgrading to our more lavish suites.

L is for Leather Fetish: Attraction to the look, feel, or smell of leather clothing or accessories.

M is for Masochism: Masochists derive pleasure from their own pain, and are the perfect partner to Sadists who derive pleasure from other people’s pain

N is for Nylon Fetish: Sexual interest in stockings, pantyhose, or other nylon-based clothing.

Bonus!

N is for Narratophilia: This refers to the (increasingly popular) pleasure derived from writing, reading or listening to explicit stories.

O is for Orgasm Control:  this is the act of drawing out the time spent on the cusp of orgasm.

P is for Pegging: to stimulate the prostate for a mind-blowing orgasm, let a lady step into a strap-on for some pegging.

Q is for Quirophilia: Foot fetishes are pretty common, on the other hand… Hands! Quirophilia is arousal from someone’s hands.

R is for RolePlay: schoolgirl & teacher, flight attendant, nurse, mailman, the possibilities are endless!

S is for Squirting: also called female ejaculation, squirting is the release of fluid during a woman’s climax.

Bonus!

S is for Spanish: this honourable mention is what most people call a tit-job!

T is for Testicle Torture: also known as ballbusting, this is the painful stimulation of the testes like squeezing or hitting.

U is for Urophilia: more commonly known as Golden Showers, this fetish is for all things urine-related.

V is for Vanilla: And it’s okay if nothing on this list interests you because being vanilla is still pretty sweet!

W is for Whips: whips make themselves at home next to floggers, paddles and canes for impact play.

X is for XXX: the classic symbol of adult-only-content. Throwback to old-school pornos, anyone?

Bonus!

X is for waX play! I know it’s a stretch but the temperature change is exhilarating so it’s worth a mention!

Y is for Yiff: A fetish related to anthropomorphic animals, commonly within the furry community.

Z is for Zelophilia: this goes hand-in-hand with cuckolding; Zelophilia is the sexual arousal from feeling jealousy.

Now that you’ve explored this A to Z list of Kinks, Fetishes and Sex acts, why not make a booking and try some out?

Although the premise of sex work is very simple, there are infinite reasons why people choose to book with Harlots! Sometimes it is as simple as seeking physical satisfaction; a purely animalistic pleasure-seeking adventure. But sometimes there’s something more at play…

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