Category: Uncategorised

If you aren’t well acquainted with the terminology of sex work, reading ads or browsing profiles of escorts can be overwhelming. Let’s break down some of the common phrases you will come across.

The Basics

Starting with the basics, “escort” describes sex workers in general, but it also sometimes refers to sex workers who will come see you at your home or hotel. Don’t assume that someone who describes themselves as an escort will leave their establishment for a booking; it’s best to ask. At Harlots, we use ‘escort’ to refer to any of the people on our roster, so we use other terms to identify where they work from.

“In-call” is when clients come to an escort’s home or establishment. In-calls at Harlots Canberra take place at 2/77 Gladstone St, Fyshwick.

Conversely, “out-calls” are when escorts come to visit you at your home or hotel! They have an associated travel cost but are a great way to add to a weekend away.

BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman, so profiles with this tag will showcase plus-size ladies.

Bi Double escorts refer to escorts who are ready to get down and dirty with you and another escort. Double Trouble, for less than double the price! 

Transgender escorts are usually male-to-female (m2f) individuals who display femininity but usually with male genitalia. Keep an eye out for the rare female-to-male trans escort, who presents as male but with female genitals. Sometimes, you will see references to ‘top surgery’ and/or ‘bottom surgery’ which is the creation/removal of breast tissue and modification of genitals to match their presentation. Gender-diverse escorts come in all bodies, sizes and ages, so there’s no shame in experimenting to see what you like.

Services & Extras

While there is a huge number of sex acts, kinks and fetishes (check out our A to Z list here), here are a few that are specific to sex work. All extras are at the discretion of the escort, and they aren’t identical so it’s important to talk through what you are looking for in person.

PSE is short for Porn Star Experience. This is an extras bundle that is usually high-energy and may include things like hair-pulling, spanking or deepthroat. Review each escort’s profile here to see what’s on offer.

GFE stands for Girl Friend Experience and is a great option for those seeking romance, intimacy and sensuality.

Sitting somewhere in the middle is the Naughty Girl Friend Experience or NGFE. Again, unique to each escort, but typically strikes the balance between intense and sweet.

For the thrill seeker, consider the BDSM Experiences available. You can customise these bookings by discussing it with the escort before the booking commences so that you can tailor it to what you are after.

Good To Know

To keep things clear, here are a few other things to consider when reading ads or profiles. Any of these points would be a great thing to ask the escort or receptionist when browsing; we would be more than happy to help clear things up!

Anal sex also goes by ‘Greek’ so it may reflect the ethnicity of the escort or the service they provide.

Similarly, Spanish also refers to what you might know as a ‘tit job.’

Don’t be afraid to ask who an act is to be performed on when booking; some escorts offer rimming or spanking on them but not on the client.

It is great that Harlots and sex work in general has so much to offer, but we don’t blame you for needing clarification! Reach out via text, call, or our online live chat to ask any questions. We are here to make your fantasies a reality, so let’s get started today!

Shhh, we know we shouldn’t have favourites… But sometimes you can’t help it! We really don’t mind what you look like, where you come from or what you’re after, what makes a client memorable is how they act during booking!

The basics: respect, communication & understanding

We respect you as clients, as people and as intimate partners, so it’s always nice to have that reciprocated! Respect our boundaries and limits just as we respect yours. Communication is always a top priority, and if you are unsure what’s included, or what to do, please ask! It’s much more fun to have a clear & mutual understanding of what to expect than to be frustrated or confused. And finally, understand that the personal connection we have is our specialty and that we deserve to be paid for it! 

With a clear understanding of the basics, every experience with us will be great! But if you are looking to really make an impression…

Before The Booking

We welcome walk-ins at our Canberra establishment, but please be patient if we are booked out! Otherwise, feel free to make a booking in advance through our reception staff. Let us know if you can’t arrive on time for a booking. We can get quite busy and need to be able to schedule things well to maximise everyone’s enjoyment. It’s okay if you are running late or have to cancel, but the more notice you can give us, the better!

Clear Communication About Kinks

We don’t always have your preferred costume or toy on hand, so giving us a heads-up lets us get everything organised. It’s also a good idea to let us know if you are looking for certain acts that may require some extra preparation (golden/brown/roman showers, anal or anal play). It’s also a big plus to give us a heads-up about anything particularly intense; impact play, taboo role-play or intense BDSM scenes. We may have a preference about when and where these bookings take place. We want to make your fantasies come true, so help us help you!

Respect The Prices We Set

We specialise in intimacy and all things erotic, it is literally our job! By not questioning or haggling the prices, we get off to a far more positive start than if you begin our interaction by trying to change the listed price. Extras often depend on things like duration of booking and intensity, and they vary between escorts so there’s no point complaining if the price isn’t what you expected. 

We love having your business; the positive memories we make in this line of work are incredible. Of course, there are less-than-spectacular clients and subsequently substandard bookings. Spending time with our favourite clients can turn the whole day around! Thank you for taking the time to read about how to make everyone’s experience better, and we look forward to seeing you xx

Fetishes are sexual interests or preferences that are outside of what is considered ‘normal’. Here at Harlots, we LOVE spicing up time in the bedroom, and there are plenty of reasons why you should too!

Enhanced Arousal

For individuals with fetishes, engaging in their preferred activities or objects can lead to heightened arousal and sexual excitement. We want to maximise every moment of pleasure too!

Novelty and Variety

Fetishes bring that much-needed spice to your sex life. Say goodbye to boring routines and hello to wild and exciting adventures.

Creative Exploration

Exploring fetishes means diving into the world of imagination and creativity. It’s all about trying out new things and having fun with it.

Embrace Your Preferences

Fetishes can be pretty unique, but that’s the beauty of it. Embracing your quirks and fantasies can make you feel more comfortable in your skin.

Compatibility

It can be tricky to find someone who is into the same things as you, but you can come in whenever we are open and discuss things with the ladies available.

Self-Discovery

Finding out what turns you on can be an enlightening journey of self-discovery. You might learn things about yourself you never knew.

It’s all about consent, communication, and being comfortable with your partner. As long as you’re both having a good time and respecting each other’s boundaries, fetishes can add some serious fun to your sex life.