If you choose to offer outcalls to clients homes or hotel rooms or social dates like dinner or coffee, you will need to choose suitable outfits for going out. There are plenty of factors that play a part in finding the perfect outfit for outcalls. Here are the top 3.

The Weather

While wet T-shirts are a classic suggestive look, the rain can turn a sophisticated look into a sopping mess if you aren’t prepared. Consider investing in a stylish splashproof jacket or a mini umbrella if you are working in wet weather. Conversely, in hot weather, choose lighter clothing so you can keep cool and avoid sweating through your dress. 

The Destination

A sparkly cocktail dress may suit the glitz and glam of high-class hotels but for home visits, something less glamorous is less likely to catch the eye of snooping neighbours. If you are meeting the client for an activity before heading to the bedroom, then make sure your outfit is appropriate for whatever it is you have planned. No matter where you are headed, swapping the stilettos for something like pumps or kitten heels is a safer choice.

Your Service

While fetishwear is no longer practical, there are still plenty of ways to subtly hint at what’s in store! For dominatrices, there are plenty of black leather (or fake leather) jackets that match the kinky vibes of fetishwear. If your service is based more on companionship and connection than freaky sex, then consider a blend of casual & sexy.

Offering outcalls and social dates with clients can boost your earning potential and expand your skill set. Choosing a practical outfit goes a long way to setting up a seamless outcall experience. If in doubt, you can ask fellow escorts or staff at your establishment for their input. The perfect outfit will work with the weather, the destination and your plans for the bookings, plus make you look and feel fabulous!

Photo shoots don’t have to break the bank! While a professional shoot can be a great investment, it can be pricey especially if you are just starting out. Here are some tips for getting quality photos alone.

Equipment

Having a quality camera, tripod and lighting set-up would be ideal but they aren’t compulsory in order to achieve quality images! Any new-ish smartphone has a camera capable of good-quality images. Where possible, opt for the back camera, they are better in quality and don’t distort images as much.

For a tripod, I have had success using chairs, windowsills, countertops, a carefully arranged tower of books and even holding my phone between my feet while I’m on my back! Solo photos are tricky but get creative if you are after a specific angle!

For lighting, sometimes natural lighting by a big window is perfect (but be considerate of the neighbour’s view). If you need other lighting, standard ceiling lights can work but lamps give you more control over brightness and position. Coloured lights like LED strips or lava lamps can create unique colour themes that might help make your photos stand out!

Timing

The next issue to tackle is how to take the photo when you are in position. Here are some solutions:

  • The inbuilt timer button (usually a choice of 5 or 10 second countdown)
  • Headphones (the ones with cords); you can click the volume button to take a photo
  • Commercial products designed exactly for this problem

But by far my favourite method is to set my phone to video, go pose and then come back to take screenshots of the video. It works like a champ!

Whether you are just getting started in the industry or looking to update your gallery, doing it solo is definitely possible! Give it a shot and see what works for you.

Happy snapping!

Despite getting caught in your lipgloss mid-kiss, your hair deserves a few precautions to keep it at its healthiest. From products to techniques, there are several ways to protect your hair before and during bookings. 

Heat damage from styling tools

One of the biggest risks to your hair happens before you ever meet a client! The heat from styling tools like curlers and straighteners can mess with dye-jobs and make hair prone to breakage. There are heat-free alternatives like leave-in curlers but if you can’t give up the curler, consider investing in a heat protectant spray to help preserve your luscious locks.

Hair Pulling

Hair pulling is an iconic part of many men’s fantasies so it can be a great way to make a little extra in a booking, if it’s something you want to offer. Like any contact between partners, there are preferred techniques to keep from causing pain (or losing hair). Like tweezing, pulling just a few hairs will cause pain and breakage, so it’s best to grab a decent ponytails worth. I suppose there’s a reason why Harley Quinn’s iconic pigtails get called ‘handle bars.’

It’s also a good idea to check his hands and wrists for rings and bracelets that risk snagging. Chainlink bracelets are especially painful!

Miscellaneous Causes Of Damage

If you are in the kink scene, there are additional things to look out for. For example, flames and wax from candles. For impact play with whips or floggers, consider sweeping your hair up into a quick ponytail to minimise tangles. If you enjoy greased-up body slides, then consider an up-do to keep it out of the lotion or oil.

Whether you’re a classic ponytail gal or a master of the perfectly imperfect messy bun, your hair is probably a key part of your work persona. If you are looking for a workplace-appropriate way to keep your hair out of your face, then pick up a Harlots scrunchie on your next tour with us!