What Is Erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile Dysfunction, aka ED or impotence, is the inability to get or keep an erection. It can affect up to 50% of men aged 40 to 70. Now the occasional failure to get an erection is normal and often related to alcohol, anxiety, tiredness or a combination of all three. However, if you are having ongoing issues, then that’s not normal, and you need to have a chat with your doctor. 

Causes Of Erectile Dysfunction

There are lots of different factors that can cause ED. Anxiety or depression used to be considered the main cause, but is in fact only the main cause in 1 of 10 cases. Most cases of ED are physical or anatomical, with ED being a symptom of another problem. Some examples of main causes are illnesses such as diabetes, MS, or high blood pressure. It can also be a side effect of surgery, like a radiation treatment or a prostatectomy, or a side effect of medications. Another leading cause is your lifestyle, like smoking, alcohol and obesity. So what are some treatments for ED?

Counselling & Therapy

While only the main cause in 1 of 10 cases, anxiety, depression and stress can seriously impact your ability to maintain an erection. Counselling and therapy can be a great way to combat these issues and may also help with your Erectile Dysfunction. 

Vacuum Erection Devices

Vacuum erection devices or penis pumps are a drug-free way of treating ED. They help by increasing the blood flow to the penis and can help create an erection that works well enough for penetration. However, they tend not to be as effective as medications.

Medications

While medications can be the cause of Erectile Dysfunction, some medications can also be the treatment. If medication is the cause, you can discuss changing your prescription with your doctor. However, there are a few prescription medications that can help improve the blood flow to the penis, famously the little blue pill. These medications won’t cause erections, but will help boost any erections you get. However, these medications can have their own side effects like facial flushing, headaches and sometimes muscle pain and reflux. There are also new versions of this medication that can be compounded into lozenges, which tend to be more effective. As always with medications, have a discussion with your doctor about what’s right for you.

Injections

For those men who can’t take oral medications, there are injections available. They can be a bit daunting as you inject them straight into the penis, but the needle is very small, and most users find it surprisingly painless, a 1.1/10 on the pain scale. This injection takes about 5 minutes to kick in, forces an erection even if you aren’t aroused, and you’ll be hard for about 45 minutes. This medication is serious stuff, so you definitely need medical guidance before use.

I hope this helps you tackle Erectile Dysfunction and have those tough conversations with your doctor. For more information on erectile dysfunction, you can read more here. Or if you’d like to try out some of these techniques, you can see all the gorgeous escorts we have available here

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and finding the perfect gift for your partner (or favourite escort) can be difficult. To help, I’ve created a list of simple, sultry and sweet gifts for that special someone. 

Flowers

A tried and true romantic gift is flowers. They’re beautiful to look at and brighten up any room. The one downside is they don’t last very long. So, I would recommend buying a mix of real and fake flowers, that way your beautiful bouquet will last longer, or you can go for a full fake bouquet if your special someone has allergies. Just make sure you are getting good-quality fake flowers; otherwise your gift might look tacky rather than classy.

Chocolate & Wine

Another Valentine’s classic is chocolate and wine. This combo is especially good for sharing with your Valentine. Add on a romantic night in, and you have the perfect lowkey Valentine’s date. If you want to go for something a bit more romantic and sensual, I would recommend chocolate-coated strawberries or even a chocolate fondue spread that you can feed to each other. 

Toys

Valentine’s Day can be a great excuse to spice up the bedroom. Is there something your partner has wanted to try but you haven’t had the chance? Now’s your opportunity, give your partner the gift of their dream erotic experience. Or buy them a toy just for their pleasure. Reminder: this is a gift for them, not for you. You can find a range of toys available on Lovehoney.


I hope this has helped you come up with a gift or two for your beloved. If you don’t want to spend Valentine’s Day alone, or want to explore adding a third to your bedroom fun, you can find all the gorgeous escorts we have available here.