When you are browsing some of the gorgeous babes available, you are sure to come across a whole heap of terms that are unique to the sex industry. Everyone is familiar with the words “porn star” and might even have their favourites. However, a “Porn Star Experience” offers you the chance to feel like one!

Extras (things outside of standard service) often appear together in “Experiences.” These are themed bundles that help you make the most of your time together! “Porn Star Experience,” or PSE for short, is one example.

Porn Star Experiences draw inspiration from the wild moans, naughty extras and kinky pleasures in our favourite XXX scenes. Just like every porn video is unique, every PSE varies. Without any hard-and-fast rules about what should be in a PSE, your time with different escorts will be focused on what they do best! Sometimes that’s messy BJs & deepthroat, other times it could be hairpulling and spanking. While things like dirty talk, role play and spanking are popular inclusions in PSE not everyone offers them, so it’s important to make sure you know what’s included.

When it comes to pricing PSEs, some escorts charge a flat rate for all bookings up to an hour long. Others adjust their prices depending on how long you would like to spend together. If you’re booking more than an hour, it’s best to chat in–person about the total cost of your extras. Booking more than one escort is another great way to spice things up! Just make sure you confirm what is and isn’t in each of their PSEs. Most escorts list individual extras on their profiles and if you see something you like that’s not in their PSE there is no harm in asking! Not everyone can be flexible with their PSEs but you won’t know unless you ask!

Porn Star Experiences can be exhilarating, but they may not be what you are looking for. Sometimes, a good ol’ standard booking with massage, handjob, blowjob and sex is all you want. PSEs are one of many ways you can choose to spice up your time together, and we will gladly leave the naughty stuff for another time. If you do feel like some wild thrills and chills, check out some Porn Star extraordinaires here.

Expand your vocabulary and get inspiration for your next booking with this A to Z list of Kinks, Fetishes and Sex Acts!

A is for Analingus: also known as rimming, this is the oral stimulation of someone’s anus.

B is for Blindfold: the sensory deprivation of not being able to see your partner is a serious turn-on!

C is for Cunnilingus: this is the technical term for oral sex performed on a woman.

D is for Deepthroat: a seriously intense BJ experience featured in plenty of Porn Star Experiences.

E is for Exhibition: the sexual gratification of being watched while getting dirty. To match, there’s Voyeurism which is the sexual gratification of watching others.

F is for Flavour: with flavoured dams, condoms and lube, there’s no shortage of flavours you can have in the bedroom.

Bonus!

F is for Food Play: Going hand-in-hand with flavoured lube and condoms is food play, like licking chocolate sauce or whipped cream off your partner’s body.

G is for Greek: more commonly referred to as Anal, this is the penetration of an anus.

H is for Humiliation: any physical or verbal form of humiliation by either party.

I is for Impact play: and whether you want to punish or BE punished, there are all sorts of toys available.

J is for JOI: Jerk-Off Instructions can be part of edging or humiliation scenes which are a great way to break the ice before launching into fun together.

K is for Katoptronophilia: that real mouthful of a word means arousal from having sex in front of a mirror. If the thought of watching yourself with one of our babes gets you going, consider upgrading to our more lavish suites.

L is for Leather Fetish: Attraction to the look, feel, or smell of leather clothing or accessories.

M is for Masochism: Masochists derive pleasure from their own pain, and are the perfect partner to Sadists who derive pleasure from other people’s pain

N is for Nylon Fetish: Sexual interest in stockings, pantyhose, or other nylon-based clothing.

Bonus!

N is for Narratophilia: This refers to the (increasingly popular) pleasure derived from writing, reading or listening to explicit stories.

O is for Orgasm Control:  this is the act of drawing out the time spent on the cusp of orgasm.

P is for Pegging: to stimulate the prostate for a mind-blowing orgasm, let a lady step into a strap-on for some pegging.

Q is for Quirophilia: Foot fetishes are pretty common, on the other hand… Hands! Quirophilia is arousal from someone’s hands.

R is for RolePlay: schoolgirl & teacher, flight attendant, nurse, mailman, the possibilities are endless!

S is for Squirting: also called female ejaculation, squirting is the release of fluid during a woman’s climax.

Bonus!

S is for Spanish: this honourable mention is what most people call a tit-job!

T is for Testicle Torture: also known as ballbusting, this is the painful stimulation of the testes like squeezing or hitting.

U is for Urophilia: more commonly known as Golden Showers, this fetish is for all things urine-related.

V is for Vanilla: And it’s okay if nothing on this list interests you because being vanilla is still pretty sweet!

W is for Whips: whips make themselves at home next to floggers, paddles and canes for impact play.

X is for XXX: the classic symbol of adult-only-content. Throwback to old-school pornos, anyone?

Bonus!

X is for waX play! I know it’s a stretch but the temperature change is exhilarating so it’s worth a mention!

Y is for Yiff: A fetish related to anthropomorphic animals, commonly within the furry community.

Z is for Zelophilia: this goes hand-in-hand with cuckolding; Zelophilia is the sexual arousal from feeling jealousy.

Now that you’ve explored this A to Z list of Kinks, Fetishes and Sex acts, why not make a booking and try some out?

If you aren’t well acquainted with the terminology of sex work, reading ads or browsing profiles of escorts can be overwhelming. Let’s break down some of the common phrases you will come across.

The Basics

Starting with the basics, “escort” describes sex workers in general, but it also sometimes refers to sex workers who will come see you at your home or hotel. Don’t assume that someone who describes themselves as an escort will leave their establishment for a booking; it’s best to ask. At Harlots, we use ‘escort’ to refer to any of the people on our roster, so we use other terms to identify where they work from.

“In-call” is when clients come to an escort’s home or establishment. In-calls at Harlots Canberra take place at 2/77 Gladstone St, Fyshwick.

Conversely, “out-calls” are when escorts come to visit you at your home or hotel! They have an associated travel cost but are a great way to add to a weekend away.

BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman, so profiles with this tag will showcase plus-size ladies.

Bi Double escorts refer to escorts who are ready to get down and dirty with you and another escort. Double Trouble, for less than double the price! 

Transgender escorts are usually male-to-female (m2f) individuals who display femininity but usually with male genitalia. Keep an eye out for the rare female-to-male trans escort, who presents as male but with female genitals. Sometimes, you will see references to ‘top surgery’ and/or ‘bottom surgery’ which is the creation/removal of breast tissue and modification of genitals to match their presentation. Gender-diverse escorts come in all bodies, sizes and ages, so there’s no shame in experimenting to see what you like.

Services & Extras

While there is a huge number of sex acts, kinks and fetishes (check out our A to Z list here), here are a few that are specific to sex work. All extras are at the discretion of the escort, and they aren’t identical so it’s important to talk through what you are looking for in person.

PSE is short for Porn Star Experience. This is an extras bundle that is usually high-energy and may include things like hair-pulling, spanking or deepthroat. Review each escort’s profile here to see what’s on offer.

GFE stands for Girl Friend Experience and is a great option for those seeking romance, intimacy and sensuality.

Sitting somewhere in the middle is the Naughty Girl Friend Experience or NGFE. Again, unique to each escort, but typically strikes the balance between intense and sweet.

For the thrill seeker, consider the BDSM Experiences available. You can customise these bookings by discussing it with the escort before the booking commences so that you can tailor it to what you are after.

Good To Know

To keep things clear, here are a few other things to consider when reading ads or profiles. Any of these points would be a great thing to ask the escort or receptionist when browsing; we would be more than happy to help clear things up!

Anal sex also goes by ‘Greek’ so it may reflect the ethnicity of the escort or the service they provide.

Similarly, Spanish also refers to what you might know as a ‘tit job.’

Don’t be afraid to ask who an act is to be performed on when booking; some escorts offer rimming or spanking on them but not on the client.

It is great that Harlots and sex work in general has so much to offer, but we don’t blame you for needing clarification! Reach out via text, call, or our online live chat to ask any questions. We are here to make your fantasies a reality, so let’s get started today!