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While most people know that BDSM is associated with kinks & fetishes, the actual letters of themselves often go overlooked. BDSM is an acronym, but some of the letters double to include more than one word. It stands for Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism.

Bondage

Bondage can refer to all sorts of restraints, but some popular favourites include shibari/ropes, silk ties or handcuffs (bonus points if they are fluffy!). Ropes, cuffs, straps or chains can be exciting for the person doing the restraining and the one being restrained but it’s an exercise in trust too. Bondage and restraints are often reserved for established partners so don’t be surprised if the escort you see would like to hold off on the chains for a while. As with all BDSM things, communication is paramount so check in with your partner frequently. Make sure they are still enjoying their time and that nothing is uncomfortable (or cramping!). There are plenty of online resources about how to achieve elaborate harnesses made of rope but sometimes the most fun is the spontaneous, make-shift restraints, like while we are undressing, taking off your suit tie to wrap my wrists together…

Discipline

The tension of discipline relies on a power dynamic like a master and servant or teacher and naughty student. Discipline might mean punishments for breaking the agreed-upon rules or rewards for following orders. Again, communication is key so establish the ground rules before starting to give out orders. You could go old school with a wooden cane across my thighs, or reward me by letting me do what I like with you for a while. Sometimes discipline can be less about the pain of whips and paddles. There is plenty of inspiration online for “fun-ishments” instead.

Domination & Submission

One of the core elements of BDSM is the power play of domination and submission. Sometimes it’s subtle, there may be a sense of shared experiences rather than power. Other times that power play is at the core of the scene. The appeal of teacher-student or master-servant roleplays is the sense of domination that one has over the other. It’s important to discuss things before diving into the fun though. Even the words we use in dirty talk aren’t one-size-fits-all; would you rather I call you Sir or Master? And while calling me a good girl will make my heart skip a beat, my girlfriend would much rather be your dirty little slut, or we could take control and be your Mistresses.

Sadism & Masochism

Last but not least is the combo deal of sadism and masochism. Sadism is the sexual arousal and gratification that comes with making others feel pain or humiliation. To complement sadism, masochism is when feeling pain or humiliation is what gets you off. Some people don’t resonate with either term so their BDSM scenes might be different. They may focus on taboo role-play or mutual pleasure rather than impact play or degradation. For people interested in sadism & masochism, it can be very rewarding to start the intensity low and build slowly. Rather than starting with floggers, you could pinch me, bite me, and drag your nails across my skin first. Not everyone is so eager to experience all those sensations, so check in with your partner. I know plenty of people who would much rather see you squirm instead.

Given how important communication is in all aspects of BDSM, you should always make sure you set aside some time to talk before your booking. We want to make your wildest dreams come true but unexpected bites or insults are definitely not going to make a positive impression. Be upfront about what you are after and we can point you in the direction of escorts who share the same naughty interests. Whether you are looking for an obedient little pet, a latex-clad mistress or anything in between, check out the escorts who enjoy the darker side of pleasure here.

While the XXX magazine industry blossomed in the 1960s and boomed over the ’70s and ’80s, it soon gave way to DVD and late-night Gone Wild commercials. Now, the overwhelming majority of explicit material is available online and most young men have never known the panic of hurriedly stashing their centrefold under the bed. Despite the cultural waves of celebrating or repressing sexually explicit media, every culture has had some form of erotic media.

The Kama Sutra

Perhaps the most renowned piece of erotic literature is the Kama Sutra. Believed to have been written by Vatsyayana Mallanaga, the Kama Sutra takes a holistic approach to human sexuality and fulfilment. It is divided into seven parts. Those parts discuss everything from the basics of loving someone to the ethical implications of having an affair.

Sexual Union

The second instalment, titled Sexual Union, is usually what comes to mind when someone mentions the Kama Sutra. It features explicit positions and techniques in bed, many of which are familiar to the modern reader. However, there are plenty of variations that can help spice things up!

Consider the Bull Position or ‘Virsha’ which takes reverse cowgirl to a whole new level. Men get to lay back and enjoy the view, while the receiving partner leans forward to grab their partner’s shins or ankles for more control when riding.

If you feel like getting literally tangled in the sheets, try out the Lotus or ‘Padmasana’ position. Sit cross-legged and have the receiving partner sit in your lap facing you, their legs wrapping around your lower back. Then, explore the range of rocking, grinding and gyrating motions available to you in this intimate entanglement.

The Kama Sutra has inspired countless drawings, paintings and sculptures, often in places of worship and art galleries. Many modern reprints of the Kama Sutra come with their own interpretations and illustrations of the poses. 

Insightful & Culturally Intriguing

When it isn’t serving as a how-to for up-and-coming porn stars, the Kama Sutra is among the most culturally significant texts, especially given the insight it offers into the cultural and philosophical attitudes of the time. It discusses key pillars of attraction and compatibility and examines in detail the role of courtesans and wifely duties. The Kama Sutra offers a unique perspective on the most desirable attributes at that time. It’s interesting to see how our understanding of relationships and sex has changed over time.

While many of the beliefs in the Kama Sutra don’t align with modern views, the historical value of the text is undeniable. History often focuses on trade, war and religion so understanding how ancient cultures viewed sex and relationships is important too. Aside from earning a place in museums and galleries, it’s a pretty interesting read to spice up your repertoire.

Fetishes are sexual interests or preferences that are outside of what is considered ‘normal’. Here at Harlots, we LOVE spicing up time in the bedroom, and there are plenty of reasons why you should too!

Enhanced Arousal

For individuals with fetishes, engaging in their preferred activities or objects can lead to heightened arousal and sexual excitement. We want to maximise every moment of pleasure too!

Novelty and Variety

Fetishes bring that much-needed spice to your sex life. Say goodbye to boring routines and hello to wild and exciting adventures.

Creative Exploration

Exploring fetishes means diving into the world of imagination and creativity. It’s all about trying out new things and having fun with it.

Embrace Your Preferences

Fetishes can be pretty unique, but that’s the beauty of it. Embracing your quirks and fantasies can make you feel more comfortable in your skin.

Compatibility

It can be tricky to find someone who is into the same things as you, but you can come in whenever we are open and discuss things with the ladies available.

Self-Discovery

Finding out what turns you on can be an enlightening journey of self-discovery. You might learn things about yourself you never knew.

It’s all about consent, communication, and being comfortable with your partner. As long as you’re both having a good time and respecting each other’s boundaries, fetishes can add some serious fun to your sex life.

Although the premise of sex work is very simple, there are infinite reasons why people choose to book with Harlots! Sometimes it is as simple as seeking physical satisfaction; a purely animalistic pleasure-seeking adventure. But sometimes there’s something more at play…

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Brothels, strip clubs, gentleman’s bars and bordellos can be found practically everywhere. However, there is a tendency for adult establishments to cluster together and form what is known as a ‘Red Light District,’ though nowadays actual red lights are far less common. Take a wander through the historic and current Red Light Districts of Australia…

Sydney: Kings Cross

Kings Cross, located in the heart of Sydney, is among Australia’s most well-known Red Light Districts. In the past, it was infamous for rowdy nightlife & adult entertainment. Recently, the district has undergone significant gentrification and regulation changes, reducing its prominence as a Red Light District.

Melbourne: St. Kilda

St. Kilda, a beachside suburb of Melbourne, has a long history of being associated with the sex industry. While regulations are in place limiting the presence of street-based sex work, St. Kilda is still home to adult venues. The district also shows off a vibrant music and arts scene, making it a unique blend of cultures and lifestyles.

Brisbane: Fortitude Valley

Fortitude Valley, or “The Valley” for short, is Brisbane’s answer to Red Light Districts. It has a colourful history of nightlife and adult entertainment venues, making it a popular destination for partygoers and tourists alike. However, like Kings Cross in Sydney, The Valley has also seen efforts to clean up its image, leading to changes in the types of establishments present in the area. If you are further north in the Sunshine State, consider stopping by Harlots Mackay!

Perth: Northbridge

Northbridge, located in the heart of Perth, boasts a bustling nightlife and numerous entertainment options, including various adult-oriented establishments. Just across the bridge in Burswood is Langtrees Perth; a long-standing, highly regarded gentleman’s club. Northbridge has a vibrant atmosphere, with bars, nightclubs, and strip clubs attracting both locals and tourists.

Adelaide: Hindley Street

Hindley Street in Adelaide has been historically associated with adult entertainment venues, such as strip clubs and brothels. While there have been efforts to rejuvenate this area and reduce its association with the sex industry, it remains a notable location for those seeking adult entertainment options in South Australia.

Darwin: Mitchell Street

Darwin’s Mitchell Street, in the city’s central business district, has a reputation for its nightlife and adult entertainment offerings. This area caters to a mix of locals and visitors, offering various bars, nightclubs, and other adult-oriented venues. It’s worth noting that the dynamics of the sex industry in the Northern Territory differ from other states in Australia.

Canberra: Fyshwick

Fyshwick, located in the Australian Capital Territory (ACT), has several adult entertainment businesses, including brothels and adult shops, mixed among industrial businesses as well. The ACT has unique laws regulating the sex industry, and Fyshwick has been a focal point for these activities in the region. Of course, it is the home of Harlots Canberra, so do come say hello!

Pros:

Exploration and Variety

A threesome can offer an opportunity to explore new sexual experiences and introduce variety into a relationship. While some people are satisfied with routine, we really appreciate the desire to spice things up by adding a third.

Enhanced Intimacy and Connection

For some couples, a threesome can lead to increased intimacy and strengthen the emotional bond between partners. This may come as a consequence of heightened arousal, new types of pleasure or the emotional satisfaction of mutual enjoyment of someone else. 

Fantasy Fulfillment

For some people, threesomes are a spontaneous decision, for others they are legendary, elusive fantasies. Partaking in a threesome can literally make dreams come true!

Improved Communication

Engaging in open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and consent is crucial before having a threesome. This can lead to better communication skills in the relationship, not just in the bedroom, but in a number of settings. 

Boosted Self-Confidence

For some participants, the experience can help boost self-confidence and self-esteem. Whether it is seeing how lucky you are for having a partner capable of pleasing two people at once, or being the center of attention!

Cons:

Jealousy and Insecurity

On the flip side, threesomes can sometimes lead to jealousy or feelings of insecurity, especially if there are unresolved issues in the relationship.

Complicated Emotions

Threesomes can evoke complex emotions that individuals may not anticipate, making it essential to address these feelings afterward. Make sure you set aside some time afterwards to talk through any thoughts or feelings that arise.

Health and Safety Concerns

Threesomes, especially with new partners, may increase the risk of sexually transmitted infections if proper precautions, such as condom use and regular testing, are not taken. It is crucial to take all appropriate precautions to ensure that everyone is as safe as possible!

Boundary Violations

Without clear communication and consent, boundaries may be crossed, leading to discomfort and potential harm.

Social Stigma

Some individuals and communities may still stigmatize or judge those who engage in threesomes or other non-traditional sexual activities. Don’t let this deter you! There are countless people that support, enjoy and thrive in group sex activities! Plus, it can be your naughty little secret if you don’t want anyone else to know.

Threesomes and Escorts

Deciding to participate in a threesome is very exciting, and the next biggest is whom with! For individuals, theres plenty of escorts that pair up and play well with each other, so theres heaps of freedom in deciding who you would like to see. For couples, look for escorts with the tag “Ladies for Couples” as they are the most experienced in all things threesomes with couples. The other extras listed on everyones profiles are also fair game, so feel free to browse through whats on offer.

Escorts are, in our humble opinion, the perfect choice for couples adding a third to the bedroom! Consider escorts in response to the cons above…

Jealousy and Insecurity: No one will understand the complexity of group sex scenes more than someone who has experienced it before!

Similarly, escorts are well-versed in aftercare, the physical, emotional and mental care after sex. This means that they are comfortable in talking through anything that comes up, either as it happens or at the end.

Given the nature of sex work, there is no one better prepared to mitigate risk than an escort. They can demonstrate the best ways to minimise risk and use appropriate care with all prophylactics and toys. 

Escorts also prioritise clear boundaries for everyones well-being, and they will check in on all parties involved to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves as much as possible!

Finally, we pride ourselves on inclusivity and open-mindedness. And trust me when I say, we LOVE making dreams come true!

Conclusion

Adding a third to the bedroom may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but for anyone interested, the possibilities for pleasure are endless. You’ve got the chance to explore new horizons, fulfill those steamy fantasies, and add a spicy twist to your bedroom routine. Plus, sharing such an intimate moment with your partner and another person can take your connection to a whole new level.

Threesomes should be about enjoyment, not pressure or guilt, so enthusiastic consent is a must. Keep the communication lines wide open, and you might discover a whole new world of pleasure and bonding. So, if you and your partner are up for the ride, browse through everyone available here, and let us know when we can book you in!

Many men face erectile dysfunction (ED) and Viagra has long been the go-to solution. Recently, Kamagra has emerged as a more affordable alternative. Both medications aim to address ED, but they differ in several aspects, including composition, accessibility, and regulatory status. 

Defining Erectile Dysfunction

Before delving into the specifics of Kamagra and Viagra, let’s establish what erectile dysfunction (ED) entails. ED is a medical condition characterized by the inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for sexual activity. It can result from various factors, including physical, psychological, or lifestyle-related issues.

Viagra: The Pioneer

Viagra, also known by its generic name Sildenafil, was the first oral treatment approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) for ED. After Pfizer released Viagra in 1998, it has been the go-to treatment for erectile dysfunction. Viagra functions by increasing blood flow to the penis, facilitating erections when sexual arousal occurs.

Key Aspects of Viagra

Composition: Sildenafil citrate is the active ingredient in Viagra.

Legality: Viagra is a prescription-only medication, which means it is only available under medical supervision.

Effectiveness: Viagra is extensively studied and highly effective.

Safety: When used as prescribed, Viagra poses no major risks.

Brand Recognition: Viagra is a well-known brand, synonymous with ED treatment.

Kamagra: The Generic Alternative

Kamagra is a generic medication that provides a more cost-effective option compared to Viagra. It is manufactured by Ajanta Pharma, an Indian pharmaceutical company. Kamagra also contains Sildenafil citrate as its active ingredient, making it functionally similar to Viagra.

Key Aspects of Kamagra

Composition: Like Viagra, Kamagra contains Sildenafil citrate.

Legality: Kamagra’s legality varies depending on the region. It is available over-the-counter in some areas but may be considered illegal in others due to patent-related issues.

Effectiveness: Kamagra’s effectiveness is generally comparable to Viagra since both contain the same active ingredient.

Safety: Quality and safety standards for Kamagra can vary depending on where it is produced and purchased.

Affordability: Kamagra is often more budget-friendly than Viagra due to its generic status.

Key Considerations

Legal and Regulatory Status: Viagra is a regulated prescription medication, ensuring medical oversight. Kamagra’s legal status varies, and it may not be subject to the same stringent regulations as Viagra in some regions.

Accessibility and Cost: Kamagra may be more accessible and affordable for some individuals, particularly in regions where prescription medications are expensive or challenging to obtain.

Conclusion

In summary, both Kamagra and Viagra are effective medications for treating erectile dysfunction. They share the same active ingredient, Sildenafil citrate, and work by improving blood flow to the penis.

While both options pose minimal risks, if you experience ED it can be beneficial to talk to your GP about it. They can help you make an informed decision about which option aligns with your individual circumstances. Ultimately, the objective is to choose a treatment that is both safe and effective for your specific needs.

A threesome with two stunning babes is one of the most popular fantasies, and for good reason! There are plenty of reasons why booking two escorts is more than double the fun!

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

These two fetishes are the perfect pair for a threesome. Voyeurism is the pleasure you feel when watching others engage in sexual activity, and exhibitionism is deriving pleasure from being watched. Regardless of which takes your fancy, booking a double is the perfect way to promise a good show!

For Nervous Clients

While it may seem overwhelming at first, spending company with two babes can actually help relieve any awkwardness; it gives you a chance to sit back and catch your breath while the babes can entertain each other. When a one-on-one intimate moment seems too self-centred take pleasure in knowing that the escorts will gladly share their attention with each other and yourself however you like.

For Thrill-Seekers

If you are growing bored of your usual routine, a double can definitely help spice things up! The opportunities, extras and positions made available by adding a second escort can intensify an otherwise vanilla booking.

Regardless of why you choose to book a double, Harlots escorts guarantee a fantastic time! There are plenty of poses, acts, kinks and fetishes that are made possible with a third person, and even more if you choose to add another! Good luck choosing just two escorts from our gorgeous roster though! xx

So, you have decided to find some company for the evening and now you are faced with deciding upon who the lucky companion will be. With such a huge selection available, there are a few tips & tricks to help narrow it down.

Profiles and Ads

To avoid the heartache (and possible cash lost) of a catfish, check that the profile is authentic. Plenty of platforms have a verification system that marks profiles as ‘verified’ once they have completed certain identification measures. If you book a private escort, be prepared to provide deposits or ID. It’s a security measure for them but can be risky for you. Booking through verified agencies/brothels is the easiest way to maintain your privacy and meet the escort you saw online.

Looks

Beauty is more than meets the eye, but there’s no shame in admitting if you have a ‘type.’ Whether it’s blonde, brunette, BBW or busty, you can definitely find someone who catches your eye! Don’t be afraid to mix it up though, it’s always fun to try new things.

Extras

What you have planned is also an important factor when choosing a companion. Standard service at Harlots includes erotic massage, handjob, protected blowjob and protected sex. Anything else is an “extra” and not all ladies offer all extras! When booking, be sure to confirm that the escort you like offers the extras you want. We can often help direct you to escorts that offer what you have in mind. 

When and Where

Location and timing are next on the list; check out their availability/shift times and make sure you are asking for a booking within those times. While by-appointment bookings can be made under certain circumstances (like for regular clients, multi-hour bookings and/or by paying a non-refundable deposit), it’s best to stick within the listed hours when planning a booking. Keep in mind that not all escorts offer outcalls either, so if you have your heart set on a romantic night out in a hotel you will have to choose a companion who offers outcalls.

Personality

One of the biggest attractions of meeting in an establishment is the chance to chat with multiple escorts before deciding on who you would like to spend some time with. This means you can get a feel for their personality before committing to paying anything. There is also the added bonus of the possibility of booking two escorts at once!

Regardless of who you end up spending time with, Harlots promises quality companionship and a wide selection of escorts to choose from. There’s never been a better time to come and see for yourself.

Well, it was fun while it lasted but you got busted spending some time with someone you shouldn’t have been seeing and now you’re in the dog house. Whatever the reason why, if there’s any chance of salvaging your relationship, there are some basic steps to follow.

Acknowledge Responsibility

Admit to your actions and take full responsibility for your behaviour. Denying or minimizing what happened will only complicate the situation further. This means recognising that the choices you made impacted someone else.

Sincerely Apologize

Offer a heartfelt and sincere apology to your partner. Express remorse for your actions and the hurt you’ve caused. Acknowledge the pain they’re feeling and show that you understand the gravity of your mistake. This is NOT the time to bring up their mistakes or to give excuses.

Give Space

After apologizing, give your partner space to process their emotions. This may mean sticking it out in the dog house (or sleeping on the couch) a little longer. They deserve the chance to think about things and decide how they want to move forward. Let them know that you are ready to talk whenever they are.

Be Honest and Transparent

If your partner has questions about the situation, answer them honestly. Transparency is essential for rebuilding trust, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Reflect and Change

Take some time to reflect on why you cheated. Understanding the underlying reasons can help you avoid repeating them in the future. If you’re serious about repairing the relationship, commit to making changes in your behaviour and addressing any issues. This might mean new boundaries and therapy for one or both of you.

Cut Off Contact

Finally, for everyone’s sake, cut off contact with the person you cheated with. It will help solidify your intentions to your partner and keep you from making the same mistake again!

There’s no guarantee that things will return to normal, after all, it’s a pretty awful experience to be cheated on, but these steps are foundational to getting anyone out of the dog house. Good luck, Fido.