While the XXX magazine industry blossomed in the 1960s and boomed over the ’70s and ’80s, it soon gave way to DVD and late-night Gone Wild commercials. Now, the overwhelming majority of explicit material is available online and most young men have never known the panic of hurriedly stashing their centrefold under the bed. Despite the cultural waves of celebrating or repressing sexually explicit media, every culture has had some form of erotic media.

The Kama Sutra

Perhaps the most renowned piece of erotic literature is the Kama Sutra. Believed to have been written by Vatsyayana Mallanaga, the Kama Sutra takes a holistic approach to human sexuality and fulfilment. It is divided into seven parts. Those parts discuss everything from the basics of loving someone to the ethical implications of having an affair.

Sexual Union

The second instalment, titled Sexual Union, is usually what comes to mind when someone mentions the Kama Sutra. It features explicit positions and techniques in bed, many of which are familiar to the modern reader. However, there are plenty of variations that can help spice things up!

Consider the Bull Position or ‘Virsha’ which takes reverse cowgirl to a whole new level. Men get to lay back and enjoy the view, while the receiving partner leans forward to grab their partner’s shins or ankles for more control when riding.

If you feel like getting literally tangled in the sheets, try out the Lotus or ‘Padmasana’ position. Sit cross-legged and have the receiving partner sit in your lap facing you, their legs wrapping around your lower back. Then, explore the range of rocking, grinding and gyrating motions available to you in this intimate entanglement.

The Kama Sutra has inspired countless drawings, paintings and sculptures, often in places of worship and art galleries. Many modern reprints of the Kama Sutra come with their own interpretations and illustrations of the poses. 

Insightful & Culturally Intriguing

When it isn’t serving as a how-to for up-and-coming porn stars, the Kama Sutra is among the most culturally significant texts, especially given the insight it offers into the cultural and philosophical attitudes of the time. It discusses key pillars of attraction and compatibility and examines in detail the role of courtesans and wifely duties. The Kama Sutra offers a unique perspective on the most desirable attributes at that time. It’s interesting to see how our understanding of relationships and sex has changed over time.

While many of the beliefs in the Kama Sutra don’t align with modern views, the historical value of the text is undeniable. History often focuses on trade, war and religion so understanding how ancient cultures viewed sex and relationships is important too. Aside from earning a place in museums and galleries, it’s a pretty interesting read to spice up your repertoire.

Fetishes are sexual interests or preferences that are outside of what is considered ‘normal’. Here at Harlots, we LOVE spicing up time in the bedroom, and there are plenty of reasons why you should too!

Enhanced Arousal

For individuals with fetishes, engaging in their preferred activities or objects can lead to heightened arousal and sexual excitement. We want to maximise every moment of pleasure too!

Novelty and Variety

Fetishes bring that much-needed spice to your sex life. Say goodbye to boring routines and hello to wild and exciting adventures.

Creative Exploration

Exploring fetishes means diving into the world of imagination and creativity. It’s all about trying out new things and having fun with it.

Embrace Your Preferences

Fetishes can be pretty unique, but that’s the beauty of it. Embracing your quirks and fantasies can make you feel more comfortable in your skin.

Compatibility

It can be tricky to find someone who is into the same things as you, but you can come in whenever we are open and discuss things with the ladies available.

Self-Discovery

Finding out what turns you on can be an enlightening journey of self-discovery. You might learn things about yourself you never knew.

It’s all about consent, communication, and being comfortable with your partner. As long as you’re both having a good time and respecting each other’s boundaries, fetishes can add some serious fun to your sex life.

Pros:

Exploration and Variety

A threesome can offer an opportunity to explore new sexual experiences and introduce variety into a relationship. While some people are satisfied with routine, we really appreciate the desire to spice things up by adding a third.

Enhanced Intimacy and Connection

For some couples, a threesome can lead to increased intimacy and strengthen the emotional bond between partners. This may come as a consequence of heightened arousal, new types of pleasure or the emotional satisfaction of mutual enjoyment of someone else. 

Fantasy Fulfillment

For some people, threesomes are a spontaneous decision, for others they are legendary, elusive fantasies. Partaking in a threesome can literally make dreams come true!

Improved Communication

Engaging in open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and consent is crucial before having a threesome. This can lead to better communication skills in the relationship, not just in the bedroom, but in a number of settings. 

Boosted Self-Confidence

For some participants, the experience can help boost self-confidence and self-esteem. Whether it is seeing how lucky you are for having a partner capable of pleasing two people at once, or being the center of attention!

Cons:

Jealousy and Insecurity

On the flip side, threesomes can sometimes lead to jealousy or feelings of insecurity, especially if there are unresolved issues in the relationship.

Complicated Emotions

Threesomes can evoke complex emotions that individuals may not anticipate, making it essential to address these feelings afterward. Make sure you set aside some time afterwards to talk through any thoughts or feelings that arise.

Health and Safety Concerns

Threesomes, especially with new partners, may increase the risk of sexually transmitted infections if proper precautions, such as condom use and regular testing, are not taken. It is crucial to take all appropriate precautions to ensure that everyone is as safe as possible!

Boundary Violations

Without clear communication and consent, boundaries may be crossed, leading to discomfort and potential harm.

Social Stigma

Some individuals and communities may still stigmatize or judge those who engage in threesomes or other non-traditional sexual activities. Don’t let this deter you! There are countless people that support, enjoy and thrive in group sex activities! Plus, it can be your naughty little secret if you don’t want anyone else to know.

Threesomes and Escorts

Deciding to participate in a threesome is very exciting, and the next biggest is whom with! For individuals, theres plenty of escorts that pair up and play well with each other, so theres heaps of freedom in deciding who you would like to see. For couples, look for escorts with the tag “Ladies for Couples” as they are the most experienced in all things threesomes with couples. The other extras listed on everyones profiles are also fair game, so feel free to browse through whats on offer.

Escorts are, in our humble opinion, the perfect choice for couples adding a third to the bedroom! Consider escorts in response to the cons above…

Jealousy and Insecurity: No one will understand the complexity of group sex scenes more than someone who has experienced it before!

Similarly, escorts are well-versed in aftercare, the physical, emotional and mental care after sex. This means that they are comfortable in talking through anything that comes up, either as it happens or at the end.

Given the nature of sex work, there is no one better prepared to mitigate risk than an escort. They can demonstrate the best ways to minimise risk and use appropriate care with all prophylactics and toys. 

Escorts also prioritise clear boundaries for everyones well-being, and they will check in on all parties involved to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves as much as possible!

Finally, we pride ourselves on inclusivity and open-mindedness. And trust me when I say, we LOVE making dreams come true!

Conclusion

Adding a third to the bedroom may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but for anyone interested, the possibilities for pleasure are endless. You’ve got the chance to explore new horizons, fulfill those steamy fantasies, and add a spicy twist to your bedroom routine. Plus, sharing such an intimate moment with your partner and another person can take your connection to a whole new level.

Threesomes should be about enjoyment, not pressure or guilt, so enthusiastic consent is a must. Keep the communication lines wide open, and you might discover a whole new world of pleasure and bonding. So, if you and your partner are up for the ride, browse through everyone available here, and let us know when we can book you in!

A threesome with two stunning babes is one of the most popular fantasies, and for good reason! There are plenty of reasons why booking two escorts is more than double the fun!

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

These two fetishes are the perfect pair for a threesome. Voyeurism is the pleasure you feel when watching others engage in sexual activity, and exhibitionism is deriving pleasure from being watched. Regardless of which takes your fancy, booking a double is the perfect way to promise a good show!

For Nervous Clients

While it may seem overwhelming at first, spending company with two babes can actually help relieve any awkwardness; it gives you a chance to sit back and catch your breath while the babes can entertain each other. When a one-on-one intimate moment seems too self-centred take pleasure in knowing that the escorts will gladly share their attention with each other and yourself however you like.

For Thrill-Seekers

If you are growing bored of your usual routine, a double can definitely help spice things up! The opportunities, extras and positions made available by adding a second escort can intensify an otherwise vanilla booking.

Regardless of why you choose to book a double, Harlots escorts guarantee a fantastic time! There are plenty of poses, acts, kinks and fetishes that are made possible with a third person, and even more if you choose to add another! Good luck choosing just two escorts from our gorgeous roster though! xx

So, you have decided to find some company for the evening and now you are faced with deciding upon who the lucky companion will be. With such a huge selection available, there are a few tips & tricks to help narrow it down.

Profiles and Ads

To avoid the heartache (and possible cash lost) of a catfish, check that the profile is authentic. Plenty of platforms have a verification system that marks profiles as ‘verified’ once they have completed certain identification measures. If you book a private escort, be prepared to provide deposits or ID. It’s a security measure for them but can be risky for you. Booking through verified agencies/brothels is the easiest way to maintain your privacy and meet the escort you saw online.

Looks

Beauty is more than meets the eye, but there’s no shame in admitting if you have a ‘type.’ Whether it’s blonde, brunette, BBW or busty, you can definitely find someone who catches your eye! Don’t be afraid to mix it up though, it’s always fun to try new things.

Extras

What you have planned is also an important factor when choosing a companion. Standard service at Harlots includes erotic massage, handjob, protected blowjob and protected sex. Anything else is an “extra” and not all ladies offer all extras! When booking, be sure to confirm that the escort you like offers the extras you want. We can often help direct you to escorts that offer what you have in mind. 

When and Where

Location and timing are next on the list; check out their availability/shift times and make sure you are asking for a booking within those times. While by-appointment bookings can be made under certain circumstances (like for regular clients, multi-hour bookings and/or by paying a non-refundable deposit), it’s best to stick within the listed hours when planning a booking. Keep in mind that not all escorts offer outcalls either, so if you have your heart set on a romantic night out in a hotel you will have to choose a companion who offers outcalls.

Personality

One of the biggest attractions of meeting in an establishment is the chance to chat with multiple escorts before deciding on who you would like to spend some time with. This means you can get a feel for their personality before committing to paying anything. There is also the added bonus of the possibility of booking two escorts at once!

Regardless of who you end up spending time with, Harlots promises quality companionship and a wide selection of escorts to choose from. There’s never been a better time to come and see for yourself.

Well, it was fun while it lasted but you got busted spending some time with someone you shouldn’t have been seeing and now you’re in the dog house. Whatever the reason why, if there’s any chance of salvaging your relationship, there are some basic steps to follow.

Acknowledge Responsibility

Admit to your actions and take full responsibility for your behaviour. Denying or minimizing what happened will only complicate the situation further. This means recognising that the choices you made impacted someone else.

Sincerely Apologize

Offer a heartfelt and sincere apology to your partner. Express remorse for your actions and the hurt you’ve caused. Acknowledge the pain they’re feeling and show that you understand the gravity of your mistake. This is NOT the time to bring up their mistakes or to give excuses.

Give Space

After apologizing, give your partner space to process their emotions. This may mean sticking it out in the dog house (or sleeping on the couch) a little longer. They deserve the chance to think about things and decide how they want to move forward. Let them know that you are ready to talk whenever they are.

Be Honest and Transparent

If your partner has questions about the situation, answer them honestly. Transparency is essential for rebuilding trust, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Reflect and Change

Take some time to reflect on why you cheated. Understanding the underlying reasons can help you avoid repeating them in the future. If you’re serious about repairing the relationship, commit to making changes in your behaviour and addressing any issues. This might mean new boundaries and therapy for one or both of you.

Cut Off Contact

Finally, for everyone’s sake, cut off contact with the person you cheated with. It will help solidify your intentions to your partner and keep you from making the same mistake again!

There’s no guarantee that things will return to normal, after all, it’s a pretty awful experience to be cheated on, but these steps are foundational to getting anyone out of the dog house. Good luck, Fido.

Shhh, we know we shouldn’t have favourites… But sometimes you can’t help it! We really don’t mind what you look like, where you come from or what you’re after, what makes a client memorable is how they act during booking!

The basics: respect, communication & understanding

We respect you as clients, as people and as intimate partners, so it’s always nice to have that reciprocated! Respect our boundaries and limits just as we respect yours. Communication is always a top priority, and if you are unsure what’s included, or what to do, please ask! It’s much more fun to have a clear & mutual understanding of what to expect than to be frustrated or confused. And finally, understand that the personal connection we have is our specialty and that we deserve to be paid for it! 

With a clear understanding of the basics, every experience with us will be great! But if you are looking to really make an impression…

Before The Booking

We welcome walk-ins at our Canberra establishment, but please be patient if we are booked out! Otherwise, feel free to make a booking in advance through our reception staff. Let us know if you can’t arrive on time for a booking. We can get quite busy and need to be able to schedule things well to maximise everyone’s enjoyment. It’s okay if you are running late or have to cancel, but the more notice you can give us, the better!

Clear Communication About Kinks

We don’t always have your preferred costume or toy on hand, so giving us a heads-up lets us get everything organised. It’s also a good idea to let us know if you are looking for certain acts that may require some extra preparation (golden/brown/roman showers, anal or anal play). It’s also a big plus to give us a heads-up about anything particularly intense; impact play, taboo role-play or intense BDSM scenes. We may have a preference about when and where these bookings take place. We want to make your fantasies come true, so help us help you!

Respect The Prices We Set

We specialise in intimacy and all things erotic, it is literally our job! By not questioning or haggling the prices, we get off to a far more positive start than if you begin our interaction by trying to change the listed price. Extras often depend on things like duration of booking and intensity, and they vary between escorts so there’s no point complaining if the price isn’t what you expected. 

We love having your business; the positive memories we make in this line of work are incredible. Of course, there are less-than-spectacular clients and subsequently substandard bookings. Spending time with our favourite clients can turn the whole day around! Thank you for taking the time to read about how to make everyone’s experience better, and we look forward to seeing you xx

If you aren’t well acquainted with the terminology of sex work, reading ads or browsing profiles of escorts can be overwhelming. Let’s break down some of the common phrases you will come across.

The Basics

Starting with the basics, “escort” describes sex workers in general, but it also sometimes refers to sex workers who will come see you at your home or hotel. Don’t assume that someone who describes themselves as an escort will leave their establishment for a booking; it’s best to ask. At Harlots, we use ‘escort’ to refer to any of the people on our roster, so we use other terms to identify where they work from.

“In-call” is when clients come to an escort’s home or establishment. In-calls at Harlots Canberra take place at 2/77 Gladstone St, Fyshwick.

Conversely, “out-calls” are when escorts come to visit you at your home or hotel! They have an associated travel cost but are a great way to add to a weekend away.

BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman, so profiles with this tag will showcase plus-size ladies.

Bi Double escorts refer to escorts who are ready to get down and dirty with you and another escort. Double Trouble, for less than double the price! 

Transgender escorts are usually male-to-female (m2f) individuals who display femininity but usually with male genitalia. Keep an eye out for the rare female-to-male trans escort, who presents as male but with female genitals. Sometimes, you will see references to ‘top surgery’ and/or ‘bottom surgery’ which is the creation/removal of breast tissue and modification of genitals to match their presentation. Gender-diverse escorts come in all bodies, sizes and ages, so there’s no shame in experimenting to see what you like.

Services & Extras

While there is a huge number of sex acts, kinks and fetishes (check out our A to Z list here), here are a few that are specific to sex work. All extras are at the discretion of the escort, and they aren’t identical so it’s important to talk through what you are looking for in person.

PSE is short for Porn Star Experience. This is an extras bundle that is usually high-energy and may include things like hair-pulling, spanking or deepthroat. Review each escort’s profile here to see what’s on offer.

GFE stands for Girl Friend Experience and is a great option for those seeking romance, intimacy and sensuality.

Sitting somewhere in the middle is the Naughty Girl Friend Experience or NGFE. Again, unique to each escort, but typically strikes the balance between intense and sweet.

For the thrill seeker, consider the BDSM Experiences available. You can customise these bookings by discussing it with the escort before the booking commences so that you can tailor it to what you are after.

Good To Know

To keep things clear, here are a few other things to consider when reading ads or profiles. Any of these points would be a great thing to ask the escort or receptionist when browsing; we would be more than happy to help clear things up!

Anal sex also goes by ‘Greek’ so it may reflect the ethnicity of the escort or the service they provide.

Similarly, Spanish also refers to what you might know as a ‘tit job.’

Don’t be afraid to ask who an act is to be performed on when booking; some escorts offer rimming or spanking on them but not on the client.

It is great that Harlots and sex work in general has so much to offer, but we don’t blame you for needing clarification! Reach out via text, call, or our online live chat to ask any questions. We are here to make your fantasies a reality, so let’s get started today!

When booking an escort for the first time, it can be overwhelming! Understanding what is available can help you book; Harlots Standard Service means an erotic massage, protected oral on you, and protected sex. That is what you get in prices quoted on our Pricing page and our advertising. However, that is only a tiny part of the experience; where it really gets steamy is in Extras!

Continue reading “Extras: What They Mean and Why You Should Consider Them”