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Fetishes are sexual interests or preferences that are outside of what is considered ‘normal’. Here at Harlots, we LOVE spicing up time in the bedroom, and there are plenty of reasons why you should too!

Enhanced Arousal

For individuals with fetishes, engaging in their preferred activities or objects can lead to heightened arousal and sexual excitement. We want to maximise every moment of pleasure too!

Novelty and Variety

Fetishes bring that much-needed spice to your sex life. Say goodbye to boring routines and hello to wild and exciting adventures.

Creative Exploration

Exploring fetishes means diving into the world of imagination and creativity. It’s all about trying out new things and having fun with it.

Embrace Your Preferences

Fetishes can be pretty unique, but that’s the beauty of it. Embracing your quirks and fantasies can make you feel more comfortable in your skin.

Compatibility

It can be tricky to find someone who is into the same things as you, but you can come in whenever we are open and discuss things with the ladies available.

Self-Discovery

Finding out what turns you on can be an enlightening journey of self-discovery. You might learn things about yourself you never knew.

It’s all about consent, communication, and being comfortable with your partner. As long as you’re both having a good time and respecting each other’s boundaries, fetishes can add some serious fun to your sex life.

Pros:

Exploration and Variety

A threesome can offer an opportunity to explore new sexual experiences and introduce variety into a relationship. While some people are satisfied with routine, we really appreciate the desire to spice things up by adding a third.

Enhanced Intimacy and Connection

For some couples, a threesome can lead to increased intimacy and strengthen the emotional bond between partners. This may come as a consequence of heightened arousal, new types of pleasure or the emotional satisfaction of mutual enjoyment of someone else. 

Fantasy Fulfillment

For some people, threesomes are a spontaneous decision, for others they are legendary, elusive fantasies. Partaking in a threesome can literally make dreams come true!

Improved Communication

Engaging in open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and consent is crucial before having a threesome. This can lead to better communication skills in the relationship, not just in the bedroom, but in a number of settings. 

Boosted Self-Confidence

For some participants, the experience can help boost self-confidence and self-esteem. Whether it is seeing how lucky you are for having a partner capable of pleasing two people at once, or being the center of attention!

Cons:

Jealousy and Insecurity

On the flip side, threesomes can sometimes lead to jealousy or feelings of insecurity, especially if there are unresolved issues in the relationship.

Complicated Emotions

Threesomes can evoke complex emotions that individuals may not anticipate, making it essential to address these feelings afterward. Make sure you set aside some time afterwards to talk through any thoughts or feelings that arise.

Health and Safety Concerns

Threesomes, especially with new partners, may increase the risk of sexually transmitted infections if proper precautions, such as condom use and regular testing, are not taken. It is crucial to take all appropriate precautions to ensure that everyone is as safe as possible!

Boundary Violations

Without clear communication and consent, boundaries may be crossed, leading to discomfort and potential harm.

Social Stigma

Some individuals and communities may still stigmatize or judge those who engage in threesomes or other non-traditional sexual activities. Don’t let this deter you! There are countless people that support, enjoy and thrive in group sex activities! Plus, it can be your naughty little secret if you don’t want anyone else to know.

Threesomes and Escorts

Deciding to participate in a threesome is very exciting, and the next biggest is whom with! For individuals, theres plenty of escorts that pair up and play well with each other, so theres heaps of freedom in deciding who you would like to see. For couples, look for escorts with the tag “Ladies for Couples” as they are the most experienced in all things threesomes with couples. The other extras listed on everyones profiles are also fair game, so feel free to browse through whats on offer.

Escorts are, in our humble opinion, the perfect choice for couples adding a third to the bedroom! Consider escorts in response to the cons above…

Jealousy and Insecurity: No one will understand the complexity of group sex scenes more than someone who has experienced it before!

Similarly, escorts are well-versed in aftercare, the physical, emotional and mental care after sex. This means that they are comfortable in talking through anything that comes up, either as it happens or at the end.

Given the nature of sex work, there is no one better prepared to mitigate risk than an escort. They can demonstrate the best ways to minimise risk and use appropriate care with all prophylactics and toys. 

Escorts also prioritise clear boundaries for everyones well-being, and they will check in on all parties involved to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves as much as possible!

Finally, we pride ourselves on inclusivity and open-mindedness. And trust me when I say, we LOVE making dreams come true!

Conclusion

Adding a third to the bedroom may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but for anyone interested, the possibilities for pleasure are endless. You’ve got the chance to explore new horizons, fulfill those steamy fantasies, and add a spicy twist to your bedroom routine. Plus, sharing such an intimate moment with your partner and another person can take your connection to a whole new level.

Threesomes should be about enjoyment, not pressure or guilt, so enthusiastic consent is a must. Keep the communication lines wide open, and you might discover a whole new world of pleasure and bonding. So, if you and your partner are up for the ride, browse through everyone available here, and let us know when we can book you in!

So, you have decided to find some company for the evening and now you are faced with deciding upon who the lucky companion will be. With such a huge selection available, there are a few tips & tricks to help narrow it down.

Profiles and Ads

To avoid the heartache (and possible cash lost) of a catfish, check that the profile is authentic. Plenty of platforms have a verification system that marks profiles as ‘verified’ once they have completed certain identification measures. If you book a private escort, be prepared to provide deposits or ID. It’s a security measure for them but can be risky for you. Booking through verified agencies/brothels is the easiest way to maintain your privacy and meet the escort you saw online.

Looks

Beauty is more than meets the eye, but there’s no shame in admitting if you have a ‘type.’ Whether it’s blonde, brunette, BBW or busty, you can definitely find someone who catches your eye! Don’t be afraid to mix it up though, it’s always fun to try new things.

Extras

What you have planned is also an important factor when choosing a companion. Standard service at Harlots includes erotic massage, handjob, protected blowjob and protected sex. Anything else is an “extra” and not all ladies offer all extras! When booking, be sure to confirm that the escort you like offers the extras you want. We can often help direct you to escorts that offer what you have in mind. 

When and Where

Location and timing are next on the list; check out their availability/shift times and make sure you are asking for a booking within those times. While by-appointment bookings can be made under certain circumstances (like for regular clients, multi-hour bookings and/or by paying a non-refundable deposit), it’s best to stick within the listed hours when planning a booking. Keep in mind that not all escorts offer outcalls either, so if you have your heart set on a romantic night out in a hotel you will have to choose a companion who offers outcalls.

Personality

One of the biggest attractions of meeting in an establishment is the chance to chat with multiple escorts before deciding on who you would like to spend some time with. This means you can get a feel for their personality before committing to paying anything. There is also the added bonus of the possibility of booking two escorts at once!

Regardless of who you end up spending time with, Harlots promises quality companionship and a wide selection of escorts to choose from. There’s never been a better time to come and see for yourself.

Well, it was fun while it lasted but you got busted spending some time with someone you shouldn’t have been seeing and now you’re in the dog house. Whatever the reason why, if there’s any chance of salvaging your relationship, there are some basic steps to follow.

Acknowledge Responsibility

Admit to your actions and take full responsibility for your behaviour. Denying or minimizing what happened will only complicate the situation further. This means recognising that the choices you made impacted someone else.

Sincerely Apologize

Offer a heartfelt and sincere apology to your partner. Express remorse for your actions and the hurt you’ve caused. Acknowledge the pain they’re feeling and show that you understand the gravity of your mistake. This is NOT the time to bring up their mistakes or to give excuses.

Give Space

After apologizing, give your partner space to process their emotions. This may mean sticking it out in the dog house (or sleeping on the couch) a little longer. They deserve the chance to think about things and decide how they want to move forward. Let them know that you are ready to talk whenever they are.

Be Honest and Transparent

If your partner has questions about the situation, answer them honestly. Transparency is essential for rebuilding trust, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Reflect and Change

Take some time to reflect on why you cheated. Understanding the underlying reasons can help you avoid repeating them in the future. If you’re serious about repairing the relationship, commit to making changes in your behaviour and addressing any issues. This might mean new boundaries and therapy for one or both of you.

Cut Off Contact

Finally, for everyone’s sake, cut off contact with the person you cheated with. It will help solidify your intentions to your partner and keep you from making the same mistake again!

There’s no guarantee that things will return to normal, after all, it’s a pretty awful experience to be cheated on, but these steps are foundational to getting anyone out of the dog house. Good luck, Fido.

Shibari, also known as Kinbaku, is a traditional Japanese art form of rope bondage that has evolved over centuries. While it is now found in pop-culture art and erotica, its history is intertwined with various cultural and artistic influences, making it a rich and complex practice.

Ancient Origins

Shibari traces back to ancient Japan, where its versatility made it popular for various purposes, including restraining prisoners and torture. It gradually evolved into a more artistic and erotic practice over time.

Samurai and Hojo-jutsu

In feudal Japan, Samurai warriors employed rope techniques as a part of their martial training, known as “Hojo-jutsu.” This involved restraining captives using intricate rope patterns. But plenty of elements of Hojo-jutsu remain prominent in modern Shibari.

Eros and the Artistic Influence

The transformation of Shibari from a utilitarian practice to an art form and a means of erotic expression is believed to have occurred during the Edo period (17th to 19th centuries). During this time, Japanese woodblock prints and literature began to depict erotic scenes featuring intricate rope bondage.

Post-War Influence

After World War II, photography and magazines were able to introduce Shibari to a broader audience. Some artists and photographers, like Nobuyoshi Araki and Itoh Seiu, played significant roles in popularizing Shibari as an art form.

Modern Shibari

In the late 20th and early 21st centuries, Shibari has gained international recognition as an art form and a practice within the BDSM community. Across the globe, people appreciate Shibari for its aesthetics, emphasis on trust, and the meditative qualities it can offer both the rigger (the one tying) and the model.

Safety and Education

As Shibari has gained popularity worldwide, there has been a strong emphasis on safety and education within the community. Workshops, classes, and online resources are available for those interested in learning the art of Shibari.

Today, Shibari encompasses a wide range of styles and techniques, from traditional Japanese patterns to more modern and creative approaches. It continues to be a form of artistic and erotic expression, emphasizing consent, trust, and communication between those involved in the practice. Whether you are well-versed in the history of Shibari, or just turned on at the thought of rope restraints, we welcome you to check out our selection of BDSM escorts to introduce you to the world of restraints and bondage.

Ever had a sexual fantasy that you’re too shy to try, or simply have been unsure how to do it?

Sexual fantasies are meant to be explored; you only live once! So don’t settle for a basic or boring sex life!

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