Pros:

Exploration and Variety

A threesome can offer an opportunity to explore new sexual experiences and introduce variety into a relationship. While some people are satisfied with routine, we really appreciate the desire to spice things up by adding a third.

Enhanced Intimacy and Connection

For some couples, a threesome can lead to increased intimacy and strengthen the emotional bond between partners. This may come as a consequence of heightened arousal, new types of pleasure or the emotional satisfaction of mutual enjoyment of someone else. 

Fantasy Fulfillment

For some people, threesomes are a spontaneous decision, for others they are legendary, elusive fantasies. Partaking in a threesome can literally make dreams come true!

Improved Communication

Engaging in open and honest discussions about desires, boundaries, and consent is crucial before having a threesome. This can lead to better communication skills in the relationship, not just in the bedroom, but in a number of settings. 

Boosted Self-Confidence

For some participants, the experience can help boost self-confidence and self-esteem. Whether it is seeing how lucky you are for having a partner capable of pleasing two people at once, or being the center of attention!

Cons:

Jealousy and Insecurity

On the flip side, threesomes can sometimes lead to jealousy or feelings of insecurity, especially if there are unresolved issues in the relationship.

Complicated Emotions

Threesomes can evoke complex emotions that individuals may not anticipate, making it essential to address these feelings afterward. Make sure you set aside some time afterwards to talk through any thoughts or feelings that arise.

Health and Safety Concerns

Threesomes, especially with new partners, may increase the risk of sexually transmitted infections if proper precautions, such as condom use and regular testing, are not taken. It is crucial to take all appropriate precautions to ensure that everyone is as safe as possible!

Boundary Violations

Without clear communication and consent, boundaries may be crossed, leading to discomfort and potential harm.

Social Stigma

Some individuals and communities may still stigmatize or judge those who engage in threesomes or other non-traditional sexual activities. Don’t let this deter you! There are countless people that support, enjoy and thrive in group sex activities! Plus, it can be your naughty little secret if you don’t want anyone else to know.

Threesomes and Escorts

Deciding to participate in a threesome is very exciting, and the next biggest is whom with! For individuals, theres plenty of escorts that pair up and play well with each other, so theres heaps of freedom in deciding who you would like to see. For couples, look for escorts with the tag “Ladies for Couples” as they are the most experienced in all things threesomes with couples. The other extras listed on everyones profiles are also fair game, so feel free to browse through whats on offer.

Escorts are, in our humble opinion, the perfect choice for couples adding a third to the bedroom! Consider escorts in response to the cons above…

Jealousy and Insecurity: No one will understand the complexity of group sex scenes more than someone who has experienced it before!

Similarly, escorts are well-versed in aftercare, the physical, emotional and mental care after sex. This means that they are comfortable in talking through anything that comes up, either as it happens or at the end.

Given the nature of sex work, there is no one better prepared to mitigate risk than an escort. They can demonstrate the best ways to minimise risk and use appropriate care with all prophylactics and toys. 

Escorts also prioritise clear boundaries for everyones well-being, and they will check in on all parties involved to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves as much as possible!

Finally, we pride ourselves on inclusivity and open-mindedness. And trust me when I say, we LOVE making dreams come true!

Conclusion

Adding a third to the bedroom may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but for anyone interested, the possibilities for pleasure are endless. You’ve got the chance to explore new horizons, fulfill those steamy fantasies, and add a spicy twist to your bedroom routine. Plus, sharing such an intimate moment with your partner and another person can take your connection to a whole new level.

Threesomes should be about enjoyment, not pressure or guilt, so enthusiastic consent is a must. Keep the communication lines wide open, and you might discover a whole new world of pleasure and bonding. So, if you and your partner are up for the ride, browse through everyone available here, and let us know when we can book you in!

Here at Harlots, we pride ourselves on the phenomenal selection of escorts available. This means that it is often tricky to choose between them! So why not bring your friends, book two escorts or a whole group!

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